Back dating after a 16 year absence..givin this a try as I have never internet dated before.

I am a professional man, well respected and liked...the type there's always people around. I'm courteous, outgoing and warm with a great heart. I like to treat my lady very well, making her feel special and being gentlemanly. But it won't be dull because there is ALSO a bad boy in there, playing on the edge, stretching limits and living life to the fullest. Interesting combo IMO, best of both worlds.

I love to have deep conversations, something interesting and stimulating. Sarcassism is awesome, love a woman with a sharp witt as she'll keep me mentally stimulated. It also means she's smart which I am very attracted to since that tells me I now have a woman of good intelligence that I can talk to, and vice versa. However we all have various things unique and interesting about us, so everyone can contibute in some way, making us all equals. Lets hear from YOU!

When it pertains to appearance, you'll have to make your own opinion as it's hard for me to judge myself in this way. Opinions I have heard recently "a very handsome man" and "hot!", but we all have different tastes so make your own opinion. What I CAN tell you is that I have deep blue eyes and a VERY musclular/powerful body, which I do like to put to good use....whether it be making my lady feel safe in the world, blanketing her with the warmth of my heart or pleasuring her (opps did I say that? OMG). ........LOL, sorry I like being sassy sometimes.

I love many different kinds of women, but I will tell you....no matter how good looking you may be a crap attitude will entirely turn me away. A woman considered somewhat average with a great attitude becomes a godess in my eyes! Personalities are a MAJOR turn on! Hey just be natural and honest with who you are, believe me I will see things in you that are very cool.

I love being able to do anything at all together, whether going out on the town, hanging with my friends with me or staying in and curling up with a movie. I definately love the holding her with a deep sincerity and warm heart, making my special lady feel safe and appreciated/loved, touching her heart and soul just by holding her, caressing her skin and stroking her hair past the point of falling asleep.
I love to tickle her and try to make her laugh, but I adore throwing her over my shoulder and taking her where I want her ....sometimes for a steamy make out pressed against the wall! Yum
I love to have her lean on me when she needs, to cry to me whenever she wants, and to trust me to be her closest friend.

I want to find someone that will move me to be that man to her, capturing my heart and motivating me to return her love many times over to her in so many ways, to crave spoiling her with kindness, strength and warmth.....and of course to be those things for me as well (although you wont be able to throw me on your shoulder - im 240lbs LOL)

Oh and while shy women are SO very cute (yes I like) I really take to an outgoing woman, with a hint of boldness and certainly knowing who she is and what she wants in life and is open/honest about it to let me know what that is. A good communicator like that is a plus (no, I dont mean someone who can talk at the speed of sound).

Please, if you're going to message me... be reasonably fit and fairly free of emotional issues.

First DateHmmm, I am really versatile so pretty much anything. Having fun with someone is really cool but I can also have the best time lying on the grass and talking about life etc for hours.

How can you really give an answer to this question when you don't even know who you'd go with? Every person will create a different feel within you and may motivate you differently than any other. I prefer to get to get a solid feel for the person, trade ideas and then decide from there.

Dinner, coffee, drinks, talking, mini-golf, movies, walking in the park/beach, tanning at beach, quiet night in, making out in the back seat (had to put that in lol), anything.....something new is always good.