I am a very proud mother of three. One man and two young ladies. I have four Grandchildren the oldest just turned 21 the youngest is one. I absolutely LOVE being called Grandma. I am a widow of 10 years. Though I loved my husband dearly I now love being single. If you were to ask me the key to a relationship I'd have to say trust. If you were to ask me the key to a healthy life the answer would be laughter. I as you know just turned 60!! WOO HOO.. Thought it was going to be a nightmare. But I have to say I'm enjoying it more each day. Well that's it for me here.. Gotta run, I'm trying to level damn it! DO NOT DISTURB until I'm at level 68!!! lolol Have a good one xoxo

New news.. In a kind of relationship. The fun kind!!! lolol

So you think I'm a snob cause I don't always answer my chats.. I am very far from a snob thank you very much. lol What I am is a person with a short attention span.. I bore very easily. Want me to answer you send me an interesting message. The same old lines just pass me by...


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Recently I was asked why I look younger every year, first of all thank you for that but I have a story to tell and I hope you don't mind me typing it. If you do you need to go to another page.. lol seriously though this is all true and I'm typing it merely because it might benefit someone else. I truly do hope so. So okay years ago when I first started on here I had just lost my husband. I found fubar on one of those lonely nights that I couldn't bare to be alone. This place became my distraction it kept my mind busy. I was a complete mess back then I think I might have weighed 90 lbs. I wasn't taking care of myself at all I just didn't care , I really didn't want to be here any longer. But with my faith and the love of my family I made it through. Its been many years now and as I look back I've gone through so many stages. Just recently I almost died! I have never been so terrified in my life. I have fantastic Dr.s who have been taking awesome care of me. They found things wrong that I never knew existed. I've been receiving blood transfusions and they saved my life. My blood was going bad which was killing me. To finish off my story "I LIVE" and I have never been so thankful. Moral of my story and the answer to the question. It is healthy to love a man or a woman but PLEASE don't live for them don't let yourself become one with anyone. It is the most destructive thing you can possibly do to yourself. Always maintain you, Find your strength, keep your faith and love yourself enough to know that YOU are important. All that talk at the alter is a bunch of bullshit and should be banned everywhere. I give myself to know one but God and I stand alone as a strong (now) and healthy woman! Btw I don't know who's blood I received but they are very feisty! lol See you soon fubar and thank you for getting me through my lonely times.