I am a chef and professional cake decorator. I live in SoCal but am residing for North Dakota for a year. Now that the kiddies are grown and gone, finally finishing up on my psychology degree so that I can then obtain my masters and eventually a PhD.

I have grown children and a granddaughter. I like to visit with them. I love to travel to new places, but especially like exotic or tropical destinations.

I'm down to earth and not like most women. If I tell you it's OK and cool to go have sex with the object of your affection at the moment, it really is. No throwing it up in your face later. I firmly people one person cannot be all things to another person.

But I am very careful in who I share my intimate times with. I sound lose and free, but I'm actually not. I am very picky and very safe.... and a free-spirit - all wrapped in one package.