im to find my soulmate soon I do have a friend ,for a few yrs now but shes not the one . im a very easygoing man that does not like drama,im not a material man I like things but don't have to have them or keep up wth the jones,s ive owned homes and land but of the last .ben married long ago I was the bad boy but I did learn from it ,to be open and honest about needs and wants in all catagorys specaily sexually for tht wht ruins most couples ,because most wont or scared to talk about wants and needs and fantacys or not secure with themselves or the relationship to be open and honest about it.thats wht I learned out of a 13 yr marrage ,ben divorced 14 or mre yrs now I will not hurt a woman like tht again.so im searching for a woman who is secure with themselves in all ways and is open minded and can enjoy life with a man like me and can keep the sex alive adventurous and able to explore and be able to talk openly whenever or where ever and to try not just talk about it and to be honest no matter wht it is ,for example swinging with couples of m or f or any other ,I knw a mans normal fantacy but there are some of u ladys out there tht are the same as me ,I have had two ladys in my past live with me at one time for two yrs it was good open honest fun and ect.thts not wht im looking for so don't take it wrong its a experience ive had and thts enough of tht I think u got the point.im a good cook from scratch not out of the box ,I draw,like all kinds of music,like to dance.and all the other normal guy stuff like camping fishing ect.wht sucks for me is I don't drive so hard to find soulmate but this internet is my way for now to try to find.theres a lot mre but ill stop for now if u are looking for a man like me say hi,or im at j4015 yahoo also to chatt ,so I dare you take a chance to say hi.