I am not a member I am looking for some fun times traveling together .. long weekends and such .. a nice dinner out once in a wile ... you stopping by when your horny. or a day on the boat for some offshore drilling ..8-) .. I have been widowed for 17 years and because of my circumstances at home I am just not relationship material . I have had my feelings hurt way to much .... I have a son at home with CP in a wheelchair.