i love building computers, doin the programing fixing and testing programs, however when i am with a woman i like going out and doing things, of course things at home are ok too,,, specially bed time, if there is really any sleepin goin on. That is, when im not working. i like doing just about anything as long as it is together. Just doesnt seem like there are any out there that truely want to work together as a team, or they say they do, then the whole time they are with you they are txting someone else, lol guess they miss the point. I mean really,, why look for something you are not ready for, some get it and dont know what to do with it, or find they didnt want it in the first place, friends with benefits, really give me a break, lol not the kind of life for me. Someday i would like something pure and special that grows more and more every day. You learn about each other all your life, the main thing is to know what you want and go for it, the rest will come. i was married 8 yrs and now been divorced 3 yrs, so really you get to know someone but really, you dont know. I think the thing is to always want each other and not stray, then things come together. Thats what i want, that total focus, total deep love that just gets better and better year after year, dont know,, maybe those times are gone, seems like knowone cares to try anymore, I have been hurt in the past, but i know letting that change the person i am will not get what i want, i really think it would be such a great place it everyone was cool to each other i dont like fighting, argueing it is all a waste of time, working together as one is the key i think. you have that, then you have it all, and i dont mean other plp too, lol