well to start I sit at home all day do nothing..I do not leave the house unless It is a holidays or birthdays..special occasions..I do not do the grocery shopping or laundry..leave that to my husband who works all day..I have to listen to my mother cause I can not think for myself..I turn against my family even though I know everything I have said or done to them is not true..just me listening to my mother..I am jealous of what my sister has..my mother has said so her self.