Also besides what is via below to get yourself out there start responding to mumms as their forum equivalent.Due to your current default(upload more like it and in due time you will see exactly what I'm talking about) you will get numerous comments,rates,requests,views,fans,and or etc.This also in turn equates to them(keyword) initiaiting"chats" not you
Given you just joined(welcome to fubar) its self explanatory on why.Also if your still not getting anywhere keep in mind anyone who does anything repetition wise will always(keyword) have the same outcome.In simplistic terminology change your approach otherwise what is forementioned will stand
