Everything in life is impermanent", said Buddha. I believe that is applicable to possessions, sometimes people in our lives. Nothing is indelible. "The only constant is change". I love romance. I miss being in a committal, trusting, long term relationship. I'm hopeful this site can serve as a communication medium to respectfully unite couples. Gone are the days of telephonic conversations and planned weekends. I'm highly cerebral, love intimate conversation, yet in large groups I'm found to be the observer/the listener. I have plenty of dear, long-term friendships, however I don't run in packs. I'm not easily influenced by the opinions of others and can base my decisions on my own assessments of a particular situation, relationship, life experiences, my feelings, and find the answers from within,I also enjoy writing poetry. I am looking for an honest, caring person who likes to have fun. Someone who is educated and self confident. A person that can keep up with my spontaneity.I am sincere and have a good sense of humor. I do like a short walk on a beach. I am looking for someone who I can wear heels with. Someone who I can look up to in more than one way. Someone who is mature and interested in what is going on in the world. Someone who likes children.I also like spending time with family and friends.I enjoy meeting new people and hearing their life stories. I find it fascinating. Never judge a book by its cover.