im 41 and holding or at least trying to,i have a 9yr old son that is my heart and soul and my hero,ive been divorced now for little over two yrs,i dont believe in cheating,playing games,i dont lie,i would like to find somebody that can feel my heart with joy and love,im a kind and gentle person with a big heart,if i care about somebody theirs nothing i would'nt do for them,i love spending time with that special lady in my life and showing them just how much i really love them,i like to travel,i love to fish,hunt and just spend time outdoors,i love doing things with my son after all he is all that ive got left,im the quite type but im a good listener,i try not to judge people,god knows im not perfect,i just try to treat people the way that i want to be treated.