My name is Brian who just divorced after being married for 20 years. I have 3 wonderful boys(19, 17, & 10). Just wanting to start thinking about getting back out and enjoying life again. I am interested in dating but not looking for anything too serious too soon.

My new philosphy is to enjoy whatever each day brings me and see where it leads. So what am I looking for?? Good question. Different things attract me to different women. Sometimes it's the eyes, sometimes the personality. I can't say I have a particular type. I mean, some ladies look good with blonde hair, some with brunette. I know it sounds cheesy but I really do believe most women are beautiful in their own way.(quit groaning, I really mean it.) All I can say I'm looking for is a lady, or more than 1, that I can have good conversation & fun times with. Do I want sex? Well, I am guy so it is on my mind. But sex is not everything. Holding hands, cuddling on the couch, or even going out to dinner and barely touching at all. It's all good. The most important part is being around someone you enjoy being around.

So I guess I'm looking for a friend to talk with, a buddy to hang out with, a lady I can treat like one, and a woman I can be a man with. Does this make any sense?? I hope so...

I am romantic and fun-loving