...hello, im Paul ...some of you know the 'old me', some of you know the 'new me', and some THINK you know me lol.. and some of you are close loving friends, you know who are MY STORY: I was on a flight out of Vietnam as a baby, called Operation: Babylift. The first flight out crashed, many adults and people died..I of course was one who lived. All the birth certificates got burnt up in a crash so my age is kind of a mystery.. I'm so glad I'm alive today - grew up in New York as a kid in the 80's, GO YANKEES!..moved to Colorado in 88'.. love the weather here, as for the people here, well errr lol.. a different story, a longer story lol....I'm a HUGE MOVIE BUFF and 80's guy ..nothing beats the 80's!.. i can chat for hours just about movies and what's in theaters today ... die hard RAIDERS fan, RAIDER NATION!- i eat like a pig lol.. Wendys, pizza, ice cream, you name it! ~ my passions ~GOD - no question, I would not be alive today if it was not for God's grace and mercy and forgiveness on my life.. none of us are perfect, and we all sin and screw up.. i didn't think I would live past 29,, God showed me there was a 'better life' for me out there.. and more loving friends.. I have a great blessed life today, and been blessed to have made so many great wonderful loving friends online in the last nine years ..I love you all..- helping others with marriages and relationships and personal issues ...my calling, been doing it since 2003', it's a great blessing.. and I continue to do so. So many marriages and relationships are failing every day ..too many are getting married for the wrong reasons, and divorced for the wrong reasons..- the Bullying issue - Bullying needs to be stopped now, and it happens just about anywhere, I'll stand up for anyone who is being bullied and picked on... I was bullied at a local YMCA for 4 years straight, changed my life for the worse, and for the better.....Today, I won't ever sit back and do nothing when I see someone being picked on,,, period. We are losing more and more kids every year to suicide triggered by bullying. Stop bullies, do something..and always reach out to people who have no one.. ~RIP Phoebe Prince~- health and exercise - ..I'll help anyone who wants to get in shape and healthy. I been working out since i was 15, so I learned a lot on what goes on outside and inside the gym, you have no idea how crazy it can get at any gym while working out ..if you need any tips let me know..- I'm a true Patriot - God bless America, ..I love this country and all of the freedoms we still have.. but let's be honest, we are losing this great country to the illegals who think it's acceptable to wave their flag in the USA, wrong!.. not on my watch.. we need to get rid of all the illegals now.. or we will lose this great Nation God has blessed us with..- Here's the reality about people in the world and online: We are living in very shallow selfish times. so many friendships, relationships and marriages are failing, for many reasons.. my point, be kind to others and help someone every chance you get...."'love one another"