QUOTE:Hot and Sexy are in the eye of the Beholder. Love others and thyself.PERSONALITY:"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder," is a truth that goes all the way back to the philosopher, Plato. I believe, among others, Sexy, Loving, Hateful, Kinky, Kind, Awesome, and Hot are also in the eye of the beholder. So, the following about me is IMHO (In MY Humble Opinion).I try very hard not to project my perception of others without enough knowledge. A picture, profile, and a few likes and dislikes, I believe, only scratch the surface of who a person really is. Miss Piggy once said, “It may be necessary from time to time to give a stupid or misinformed beholder a black eye!” Of course, I believe Miss Piggy is beautiful! Also, I am open to anyone until they tell me I am not for them and vice versa. Age, height and ethnicity do not matter to me! If a 22 year-old and I are compatible, why not? The same for a woman eighty!I am an easy going guy and I feel as though I was in my mid-thirties, but have the wisdom of my actual age. Mischief would be a good nickname. I am a very sexual person who knows that sex and love are two different things and sex is a beautiful way to express love. Playful, mischievous, and adventurous sex seems to keep it hot, satisfying, and desirable.Dining out (or in) with friends is my favorite thing to do. Good conversation and the company of others are great, especially if it is spiced with humor, wit, innuendo, and laughter.I like to dance the slow ones, but prefer to talk at the table and enjoy the music on the sweaty ones. I need to save that energy for dancing in bed.Keeping up with our world is very important to me now. Reading newspapers, news magazines, and blogs is a daily exercise (at least to scan the headlines).I tape TV. CSI, Numb3rs, NCIS, Criminal Minds, Shark and sports. Commercial free is the only way to go. Some golf so I can play with my children.Traveling, as permitted by finances, is a craving. I visited Costa Rica in 2001, 2002, and 2003, for 6 weeks, 8 weeks, and 8 weeks, respectively.Following the adult entertainment industry (‘Porn’) is a hobby of mine for many reasons. In May of last year I went to Jamaica to see the actual filming of a movie. Home base for the production company and the eight guests was Hedonism 3, the newest of their resorts. It was a wild time from beginning to end. WHO YOU WOULD LIKE TO MEET:Any women who would like to talk about her's and my "About Me."I guess this would be the place to start to see if opposites attract!Anyone with common sense who considers themself a good person. "Good " is in the eye of the beholder in this case, not what society, especially religious conservative society deems good.I wish I could stop smoking. If nicotine, and its habits are so hard to give up, I can't imagine what other drugs do to you. If you have to do drugs to have fun or sex, I don't think we would get along. I try not to be judgmental, but in choosing a friend I think you have to be. The rules for acquaintenances is far different and casual. Intelligent, attractive to me, adventurous, mischievous with a sense of humor and this year's new word, is 'truthiness'!These are broad strokes and I hope they appeal to some of you out there and encourage you to write.MUSIC:Most as background; Can't help favorites being from the eras of Elvis, Beatles and Rolling Stones; Like Blues; Boston Pops; Like Country but am not fond of Rap; Like Classical in the Background but have no idea what I'm listening to. Just like the full orchestra and solo performances within.MOVIES:Action--Enemy of the State; Indiana Jones; Murder at 1600; 48 Hours; Lehtal Weapon; Jackie Chan; Bruce Willis. Certain Sci-fi--ET; Star Trek; Ghostbusters. Mystery. Comedy--Man of the Year; Trading Places; 9 to 5. Drama--Did not see 'Passion of the Christ' but I am going to see 'Apocolypco'; Private Ryan; Good Morning Vietnam; A Time for Killing.BOOKS:Profiles in Courage, JFK; Robert Ludlum fiction; History; News magazines;