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WARNING Any corporation, company, institution or person using this site or any of its associated, affiliated or non-affiliated sites: You do NOT have my permission to use any of my pictures, any information, personal or otherwise, from my profile, or anything posted in any of the forums or groups on this website in any form; or forum both current or future without prior written consent. You do not have my permission to copy, save, print, or re-post my pictures or information, either in part or in whole, without prior written consent. If you have done so at any time in the past or do any of the above in the future, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and personal property and will be subject to all legal remedies IN WHATEVER country you are in. This is covered under both Domestic and International laws on privacy.

I DO NOT DO DRAMA AT ALL NO MATTER WHOSE DRAMA IT IS! If you have an issue with someone in my family or in my top friends, please keep it to yourself. I do NOT want to hear about it. They are in my family and top friends for a reason. Oh and if you are a true psycho and are just basically a cruel person, please be kind (yes, I know as a cruel person this part will be difficult) and let me know up front so I can avoid you....already had one of those actually in my family and he has now been removed and blocked....it'd be great if you saved me the trouble....LOL:)

I will help pretty much anyone on here that needs help however I can. I will not, however, temporarily add you to my family for any reason. My family is set how it is and I do not trade family spots or sell family spots. It's just not how I play the game....nothing wrong with it, I just choose not to. If my family spots change, or I do temporarily add someone, it is because I have chosen to change it or do so. People are in my family to stay not just as a temporary thing. Family boosts are wasted on me; I appreciate the thought but please save those ability points for someone who will add you. So, having said that, please let me know if you need help in any other way and am happy to do so.

I am single but please don't take that as an invitation to be a perv on my page. Please be polite and no trash talk. I will eventually settle down with the man that captures my heart.

Also, no I do not want to video chat/webcam with you. So please don't ask. And I'm not your honey or your babe or your sweetie or any other pet names you can think of. I'm Jennifer. I also will not just automatically give you my email or my phone number or anything else. If by chance you end up with any of them (and yes there are those that have one or both of them), it is because I have gotten to know you and have chosen to give it to you.

I'm happy to chat with you on Fu but please keep it clean and respectful. I'm no nun, but I'm not a whore either. I can use the Block feature faster than you can blink an eye if you disregard my request and are disrespectful. And please do not insult my intelligence by saying it's "easier" to chat on YIM or elsewhere. Last time I checked, I did not have "stupid" stamped anywhere on me.

Now that we have that out of the way.....a few things about me: I am a single mother of two beautiful children. I'm also the proud grandmother of two precious girls (and it's not granny or grandma or whatever; it's NeNe....LOL....I'm too young to be called anything else....LOL) and have a third one on the way. I have worked in the legal field for over 25 years and am a legal secretary/assistant. I enjoy reading and collect Emmett Kelly, Jr. clowns, glass figures and movies. I love to listen to almost any kind of music - notice the word "almost"....lol. I have what I consider a great sense of humor and it can sometimes be twisted Oh yeah, I absolutely cannot stand any kind of bug, insect or whatever. I am truly terrified of them all and actually hyperventilate at the sight of one....so no bugs....

I am a HUGE supporter of our military men and women. I have lots of military in my family, mostly army and airforce, and have several friends that are military. I will not tolerate anyone trash talking our military. I realize it's your right - but hey dummy it's our military that fight for that right for you!!! If you don't like it, then please feel free to leave this great country - I bet there are plenty of our military that would personally escort you out:)

I love life: I love to laugh and live to love. I have a close circle of friends that I would do anything in the world for and I protect those that I love with every fiber of my being.

I love meeting new people so feel free to look me up and chat!!

I thought I'd update this (not that anyone will read this far but who knows)...when/if I eventually settle down with someone, I want it to be with a man that has captured my heart completely. That, however, will not be an easy task. Due to past relationships and things that have been done and said to me in the past and yes in the present, I don't trust easily. Age is a number to me - so younger, older or my age isn't the issue of who I find to settle down with. I want a relationship where honesty and trust top the list with both parties; where love is two sided; where friendship abounds; where romance is not dead; where it's okay to sit in silence and just hold each other's hands and know that everything is okay; where jealousy doesn't even enter the picture because we are so secure in each other's love for each other that it isn't necessary; where laughter is the best medicine; where it's okay to be individuals because we know that together we are a whole....I know I'm asking for a lot and I won't settle for less. So until I find that, I'm content with where I am in life.