The RundownI live in southeastern NC, right by the ocean. I love it here. Most of my family/friends live in the hellhole called Minnesota- but I was smart and got out of there.. that place really sucks ass LOL. I DON'T do cold!I am married to the most wonderful man- EVER. Kenan is my soulmate and we have an incredibly happy marriage, almost nauseatingly so. In 2007, we will celebrate our 5th wedding anniversary. I just love him so much.. my man & his BIG- uh.. beard ;)We have the twoTHREE! most beautiful children on the planet..Yes, I lead a very charmed life. Be jealous ;)Who is she? My name is Niki, I am a work-at-home momma of three: Noah; 4 years old, Ella who is 2, & Dane who was just born 8.10.06. I have been married to my best friend, Kenan since November 15th, 2002. We reside in south-eastern North Carolina, right on the coast.Parenting.. seems to be a touchy subject with some on the internet. I went the way that felt right to us as a family. We practice attachment parenting, extended breastfeeding, & co-sleeping. We also cloth diaper, mainly for economical & earth-friendly reasons now that Ella is out of diapers (she was allergic to disposables). I've never felt comfortable with the mainstream, but then again- when have I ever? ;)Keep in mind now that just because I am raising MY kids the way I choose, I am open minded & will not spurn other parents for their choices.. live & learn, right?I enjoy Thai & Italian foods, doing anything crafty/creative: knitting, drawing, painting, woodworking, photography, web & graphic design.. you get the idea. I am an environmentalist, an eclectic Wiccan, & a feminist."I have to be creating something, or I feel like I have no place in this world."I was sorted into Gryffindor."You belong in Gryffindor, where dwell the brave at heart,Their daring, nerve and chivalry set Gryffindors apart."I am a VirgoModest and shyMeticulous and reliablePractical and diligentIntelligent and analyticalFussy and a worrierOvercritical and harshPerfectionist and conservativeKenan is an Aquarius, Noah is a Virgo, Ella is a Taurus, & Dane is a Leo. Virgo & AquariusWhen Virgo and Aquarius join together in a love match, they bring out either the best or worst in one another. Virgo has a more rigid, theory-oriented approach to life. The poetic Aquarian approach, on the other hand, knows nothing of the scientific world. But these two lovers may actually thrive on their differences; they grow together as they learn about one another.Aquarius tends to passionate and temperamental while Virgo operates more methodically, and with little fuss. Virgo is very organized and levelheaded. Aquarius is modern and finds routine unthinkable. Virgo will find Aquarius exciting but may become annoyed trying to probe this artist's mind. Aquarius will be upset by Virgo's criticism, but will find the solid base Virgo provides very appealing.Virgo is an Earth Sign and Aquarius is an Air Sign. Aquarius moves through life seeking pure spiritual enlightenment, while Virgo is more intellectual. Virgos seek the 'how' and 'why' of a situation, while Aquarians simply focus on what tickles their fancy, practical or not, and usually ask 'what next?' At times each partner may find it difficult to understand the other's perspective. Conflicts can arise in this relationship if Virgo becomes obsessed with realizing the perfect relationship or Aquarius seems too aloof. Both partners must appreciate and respect one another's view of the world, and see that they have a lot to learn from their partner.Virgo is a Mutable Sign and Aquarius is a Fixed Sign. Aquarius can be unreasonable, opinionated and stubborn. Both partners are very passionate and intent when working toward their goals. Virgo adapts well to any social situation. Virgo is pleased to help Aquarius as long as their efforts are appreciated. Conflicts are rare, and are usually resolved by more Virgo's accommodating nature than by any concessions on Aquarius's part. If the two understand they're working together for a common goal, it's much easier for them to reach it. Virgo is more realistic than Aquarius will be more willing to budge to avoid a heated fight.What's the best aspect of the Virgo-Aquarius relationship? It's that when they come together, their combined ambition drives them to do miraculous deeds. This relationship tends to be informative, enlightening and a pleasure to both participants.Design history I've been designing sites & graphics on the web for over 5 years now. I have an extensive knowledge of graphic programs & numerous forms of coding/scripting.I use Adobe Photoshop CS & Illustrator for most of my graphics. I hand code in Notepad or Wordpad.You can view my web/graphic portfolio here. The icon freebies are located here. Get Your Own! | View Slideshow Get Your Own! | View Slideshow