When it comes down to human behavior, it is all about survival. Physical survival or the survival of the psyche (ie. coping skills) Sex and aggression and desire are the three major motivational forces as far as I can tell. I love my job as a Clinical Supervisor (CASAC-T) and I love the human race for being so damn complex and simple at the same time. And as far as survival and fighting-fighting has never made the pain go away, but its pain that makes us fight, but watch who you fight with, your resistence may just be working against yourself!!! I primarily work, and care for my children...i fought hard to get to where i'm at in life..and obstacles are forever coming my way, some of which I probably could have avoided some that I was blindsided with, but no regrets because without them I wouldn't be me...