i am a 25 year old father of a 6 year old. i married the first woman i had sex with. i am no longer married. ever since then i've been happier. i am fat and i'm trying to do something about it. i have goals that i must accomplish which require me to be in shape. i'm kind of a wussy when it comes to women. i don't know how to talk to them. so i just look. i am a sad and pathedic looser. i used to think i was comming to terms with that, but now i'm trying to change that.p.s. if any woman out there might like me. let me know. i wouldn't know how to start the communication.