one of my ex's is havin his so called 3rd kid and has been on and off sayin he still and always loves me and wants and has asked 2 marry me. i have feelins 4 him but when we dated and i went 2 f.l 2 take care of my kids needs. he cheated on me more then once and these chicks r nothin like me. now he's havin a kid with one but only cause she tricked him= she stopped her birth control and lied 2 him, yes i know 4 a fact she even told me she wanted not 2 lose him and she's even told me that he's only there with her cause of this kid. i told him 2 just stop talkin 2 me cause i cant and wont deal with all this drama. the ? is am i doin the right thing by leavin him alone? let me know i dont even c him nor talk anymore i just feel werid about lovin someone 4 so long and then never talkin.