I am sooooo tired of psycho women that do things to make their life worse. you never can judge a person as soon as you meet them. it always takes time to figure out what they really want out of life and a relationship. sometimes i wonder if people just go through the motions to not be alone. others have alterior motives that can't be seen untill it's to late. why can't people just have their own life and be happy with it and if someone else that has their own life comes along you can both have a good life. it doesn't work and it's not fair when one person has a life and someone else comes along and tries to mooch off of it. you can't be happy with someone else's life you have to be happy with your own. i am happy with my life but i just can't seem to find anyone else that is happy with their own. i am kind hearted and inteligent and i try to help people out as much as i can but i can't fix you. you have to fix you. if your not broke then your prolly a good person and you should say hi. i am a born again christian and i have had a wonderful life. i want to continue doing so and not be drug down by other people. i have done some things that i'm not happy about but i have forgiven myself and so has god. he's the only person that any of us have to answer to no matter what. i am still waiting for someone to come into my life that is for me and not just with me. i like making friends and talking to just about anyone. i have a lot of insite on things because i have done lots of things. advise is something that im good at giving but most people already know what they should do and don't want to hear about it from me or anyone else. anyone can be a good person if they try. sometimes it can be really trying but the longer you do it the easier it gets.