I dont know what people really wanna read on here. I dont know if the complete and honest truth is the right approach. Everyone always says they want the truth but then when they hear it they react strangely to it like you just informed them you have an infectious disease. Ok, so for the record, I think telling the truth saves time and is a good way to approach any friendship/relationship. That said, maybe somethings should be left for more intimate conversations. About me: I like to laugh. I actually have a tendency to make myself laugh daily. I also tend to shock, offend, and sometimes make people blush with my sarcasm and humor. I want to own a spaceship. Yes i know they arent technically available for purchase to the public and im afraid of extreme heights but we gotta have dreams right? i love music. I love to write. I write as much as possible. some would refer to me as an aspiring writer. I myself, dont believe im an aspiring writer because i actually write so wouldnt that make me an actual writer? I watch alot of movies and selected tv shows. I like someone who can carry a conversation and has opinions, intelligence, wit, sarcasm, and wants to do random things just to do them. I wanna travel the world, i love to cook, i love spending time with my sister and niece. I wanna fill my house with so many books that ill never be able to read them all but enjoy the time spent trying to. I just want someone fun to spend time with and who wants to hang with me because they think i kick ass. Im a huge sports fan and i follow the cubs, bears, notre dame, and manchester united. I spent alot of time in college not doing what i should have been doing (a.k.a graduating) and more time having fun (a.k.a) partying, and i have paid for those mistakes. I have evolved alot over the last few years and realized that while partying was fun, it had to come to and end. I am more focused now and I have clear goals and aspirations that I am striving to accomplish. While in college i did participate in music and have performed in a few concerts and such and have even won awards for doing so. that kinda sounded like bragging.....im kinda proud of it but not in a ha ha in your face kind of way! I have some good friends and family im just missing that one girl...the one that makes your heart beat fast, your palms sweat, makes you forget words and lose track of time, the one that when you close your eyes and see her face you never want to open them again because nothing in this world will compare to her beauty. Yeah i also have a softer side.