Five years ago I had a massive heart attack when i was about 50 pounds lighter. It left me with cognitive issues and extremely severe anxiety. With that being said, I don't handle stress well and with this being my second go-round on this site, I know the BS it brings. If I stop communicating with you, please do not take it personally. I will go silent when sh*t gets to be too much. Those of you that I have personal relationships with know where to find me. And now....generally speaking, I'm a good girl. I'm a good girl with a very wild streak. Born in Jersey, raised in San Diego for the first 30 years of my life, landed in Toledo. I'm often asked how did that happen? It happened thanks to this site but if you want to know more than that, you will actually have to take the time to get to know me. I have a wicked and often dirty sense of humor which is often taken as being flirtatious. Just because I'm flirting with you, doesn't necessarily mean I want to screw you (but then again, I just might and if you are lucky enough, I'll tell you which it is). I'm openly bisexual. I know who I am and I'm not afraid to be her. I'm fairly open so if there is something you want to know, don't be a chicken sh*t and just ask. Chances are, I'll answer your question.