I'm sure every guy who works more than for hours a week has the same fear that i do. I was just informed today that we are moving to a 6 day work week untilwe can get more sales people, and all i could thing is shyt, my wife will never see me. while it is foolish of me to say this, my second thought was my fear realized, working 61 hours a week leaves not time for sex, no time for sex leads to an affair, and well that would lead to a divorce. some married men wouldnt see a problem with that and quite frankly neither do i...cexcept one little detail. the reason im working my ass off is for her and the kids.  if it happens, it happens and theres nothing i can do to change it, i mean lets be real. it is what it is and if it happens that just means we had bigger problem than either of us realized, but still. just the thought of working all those hours to be shyt'd like that...yeah it hurts and makes me mad. understanding that nothing has happened and its stupid to get mad over...the thought is still there. i know im overthinking something i have no control over, even if i wasnt working so many hours the possibility is still there, but i guess because im not home to "defend' whats mine and the fact that there will be so little time for intmacy...it makes me question the "integerty' of my marriage. guess i will find out soon enough though