In case someone forgot to teach you how or what you should expect:
*respect- her and her opinions as she should do yours
*listen -even if you don't like what she has to say she needs to say it, and who knows you may learn something
*open the door for her-yes she can do it her self that is not the point the point is the little damn things
*little things- mean as much or more then the big ones because they show you really do care enough to do them and are thinking of her
*never- lie to her what hurts is not just the crime but the lie, that you could not even be stand up enough to except responseablty for it
*never- cheat if you love her, she is all you need and if you need more and she doesn't, then get out, small pain here is better than major hurt later.
*never- judge with out hearing her side
*never- belive she is perfect she is human that means flaws
*never- diss her flaws they are what make her unique in all the world
*never- try to change her, support and encourage her if she wants to make changes
*never-hurt her for no real reason, your damn bad day is not her damn fault
*never-hit her the only reason to lay hands on her in a way she does not like is A)self-defence
B)defence of a child C)defence of the helpless anything else is just being a monster and i hope she beats you with a bat in your sleep, she calls me i'll help her hide the body
*you- do not own her she grants you time with her in her world as do you with her
*she is not your slave
*she is not your servent
*she is not your mother
*be her friend
*be her partner
*her other half
*the first thing she thinks of in the mourning and the last at night because you do the same.
