Why is whenever it seems you finally have a relationship undercontrol, when you finally understand it, or think you do...it blows up. I'm engaged to a wonderful guy. We have been together for 4 years, in fact, our anniversary is tomorrow. Now he is thinking about moving out...says he loves me, but is unhappy where we are (he left Los Angeles to move to my small town in Louisiana). I agreed to move to the city, closer to his work and so on,agreed to give it a try even though I am close to my family here and so is our son. He says I wont make it...he is still gonna move out on his own after the holidays. I know it will hurt me, but its explaining it to our son that I am worried about. I am terrified...I feel like throwing up all the time. I want to fix, am trying to, but not sure how. Anyway, now that I got that all out....later people!!!