Over 16,514,322 people are on fubar.
What are you waiting for?

I am now finding out that my ex did to me exactly what he did to his “ex”-wife. He moves us here from up in the Ohio/Michigan area. I invested over two years of my life and my boys (2) life with him and he goes and leaves us for his new “witch” and her kids(4). The thing is I used to be her sitter and did not see it coming. What gets me is that he does not know her like he knew me before we got together and that she is not working either now. I caught him at her place on a Thursday night. He stayed the night with her and tried to tell me that nothing happen. I now wonder how many other times he said he was going some where and it took longer than it should have if he had indeed gone to see her. At that point he said he we moving back to his mom and dads. Come to find out he never planned on going to his parents place but to move in with her. It is really odd that I can recall plenty of times where he was at the same place when she was there and I did not think any thing of it because she said she had a boyfriend. There had been plenty of times I had his cell phone and he got ticked off about it but I did not think any thing of it. Also recall times that if I would go get his car to go some where he would complain later that he needed it at lunch and it was not there. I would know exactly when he went to his parents place because when he came back he was an azzhole to both me and my boys. He let my boys get attached to him for the second time, so much so that they were calling him daddy. Now they are very hurt by what he has done. Yeah I admit I was not working but that is not all my fault. I fractured my leg last year due to my son digging a hole outside at the bottom of the steps. I thought he had filled it in like he was told to do. Well I went out at dark with no shoes on. When I came off the bottom step I stepped in the hole wrong and went down. I even heard a snap so I knew something bad had happened. Well that meant I was off work for a while. I had to give up a good paying job to because of this. I even tried to work right after the doc told me it was ok to go back. At that time I tried but it was too early for me to go back to a factory job. So at this point I have been out of work for over 9 months and going to school. He did not have to pay a dime for me to be able to go to school, but he got mad case I was doing my classes online. It was better than driving an hour or so away to got to school for what I wanted. He thought it was bad with us and my two kids and no regular income for me. But she has 4 kids and she is not working either. So once again he is the only one working. That makes 6 people there when here it was only 4. But at least here I have child support for my kids and there she don’t for her 4. Keep in mind none of the kids either of us have are not his. It is not like he was the only one bringing money in to the place. I get child support(c/s) for the boys. There money was paying for what they needed and helping with the bills. I could also ask their dad to send extra money if I needed extra to help. Now their dad has a good job and could afford to do it. It is not like I just said hey every week and say they needed it. That is just wrong for someone to do every week when they get c/s. I do my best to look for a job every week. I call temp places and go out and get apps filled out at other places. But it is really hard when not many places are hiring and when they do it is for some thing other than what you are experienced to do. We all know how temp places can be at finding jobs that people actually like. Ok enough of my gibberish. Why is it ok for guys to lie/cheat behind your back? And when you do catch them they tend to blame you for it. I still believe he was in the wrong for doing what he did, but I can not change the past. All I can do is learn from it. I have learned a valuable lesson. If I think some thing is going on go and talk to the other person in the relationship before it gets way out of hand.
last post
16 years ago
posts
1
views
473
can view
everyone
can comment
everyone
atom/rss
official fubar blogs
 8 years ago
fubar news by babyjesus  
 13 years ago
fubar.com ideas! by babyjesus  
 10 years ago
fubar'd Official Wishli... by SCRAPPER  
 10 years ago
Word of Esix by esixfiddy  

discover blogs on fubar

blog.php' rendered in 0.0594 seconds on machine '189'.