Good evening everyone.This is the part where i tell you all about me.Well,instead of being long winded and boring,i will try to keep it short and to the point.Straightforward and honest.laidback.Easy to talk to..no attitude until someone provokes me to have one,and even then,i get mad because i get into that mood and i dont like being mad.I prefer to be quiet and thoughtful,reading books,writing poetry,playing my native american flutes(i have 25 of them)or my tribal drums.In the morning you will catch me doing yoga and exercising.I have 4 cats(all girls).I dance at a club three nights a week,and relax at home and get things done for the rest of the time.I am not a heavy duty partier..i take care of my body because it takes care of me.Yes,i am 37,yes the pictues you see are of me and no one else,no i am not a bot or a fake.If you dont like what you see,thats cool..everyone has their own opinion,but please dont be rude about it....dont leave a nasty rating out of spite to someone who hasnt wronged you in any way,or a comment.KARMA IS A BITCH,remember that.Im just here to socialize and chat,find new friends..stuff like that....not into being a pawn in players game.I dont stand in line behind any other woman for a mans affection.Please dont send me your phone number in an email,or ask me to trade pics....not into that...not into watching guys on cam either....if i want you i will let you know....not being bitchy,just upfront,cause i believe in complete honesty starting from moment one.



If you want to get to know me,best to read my blogs....they will clue you in to who i am..Just be forewarned..i can be quite blunt when i write.ALSO,PLEASE KNOW THAT I AM NOT AND I REPEAT NOT SINGLE!!!I HAVE A BOYFRIEND THAT I LOVE AND I AM VERY HAPPY WITH...THAT MEANS I AM NOT INTERESTED IN SEEING OTHER MEN FOR DATES,FOR CAM TO CAM PLAY,ECT.I AM IN A EXCLUSIVE RELATIONSHIP AND THE ONLY ONE WHO GETS MY INTIMATE ATTENTION IS MY MAN.I am putting all of this in caps not because i want to shout but because i want to make sure this part is read and not skipped over,so,know that i am only on here for friends and thats it.If you have a problem with that please dont ask to be my friend.That goes for couples to..i am NOT here to be a threesome plaything but thanks for the thought...i am flattered.



I know alot of people will want to know where i dance.Its at a club called OZ in clearwater florida and i am there thursday friday and saturday(thursday and saturday are the best to catch me there..i sometimes skip fridays)...again,any questions,email me.

I have many interests.I am wiccan and have been so for many years but i also borrow from the native american/santeria cultures as well.I am into various forms of healing,divination,crystal healing,runes,herbs.I am also knowledgeable of the bdsm lifestyle.I had a dom for awhile and i am as a natural switch.Yes i like women as well as men..both are unique is feel,taste,smell and touch.I consider myself a sensual person with a INCREDIBLE imagination for being creative and fun.I exercise/do yoga and i have found that it reaps unexpected benifits during private moments with someone special.I am a writer,have been since i could hold a pencil in my hand and i am working on a book of memoirs of my time in the adult industry....anything else you want to know,ask...peace

I also also online in different places.myspace,tribe,livejournal...all sites my handle name is phoenixxx,except for livejournal,the name is phoenixxxblaque...add me there if you want.

i have a website at http://www.fantasydancing.com

its free and if you go to the links section of the site you will find my yahoo group page with more pics...thanks

I am also a writer type...i have 4 different blogs here on cherrytap....my normal blog,my bdsm blog(friends only) my pagan blog,my adult xxx blog(friends only)..enjoy all...and dont forget to swing by my stash section..plenty of funny vids uploaded as well as my poetry in the dunno section.

UPDATE!!!!I am no longer single as i am involved with someone so please note i am just here for friends....thanks