I am a very honest, down to earth guy, I’m easy going, and very very romantic. I have 3 adopted kids that don’t live with me, my oldest daughter recently made me a grandpa for the 1st time on 2/11/07.

I was involved in a relationship that ended in June 2008 after many years :-( my hearts shattered so all I can offer is friendship, and the only benefit with that is I will always keep it real, I may flirt at times but if I wanted to hook up, be fuck buddies or “friends with benefits” I would say so. I’m not trying to be a player or cheat, I don’t believe in playing with a person’s emotions. Most of my friends are females and just that friends. im quiet by nature but not afraid to speak up at times.

I'm actually a very private person in real life and anyone who has read my blog probably knows more about me than those who see me on a daily basis.

Im very much into God but don’t push my religion off on anyone, I have come close to dying many times and I know that I would not be here now if it was not for his miracles in my life.

I spend most of my time at work or at home working. I work a full time job but I also have my own business, im working on building a website for it, but have been thinking about posting some items on my profile.

I served my country as a Marine and would have made a career at it but I use to drink and liked it too much. I quit in 96, I have my skeletons just like everyone else.

I have experienced a lot in my 40 + years I like to observe and study people. I love to cook and eat so I don’t cook often lol I work out regularly and my best friend is my cat “ringo”

I write poems and short stories as a hobby, check them out on my blog and show it some luv ;-)

I tend to get in quiet moods at times but i'm a really nice guy once you get to know me.


also I do have MSN windows live messenger.