I've been seeing this a lot lately so let me get something straight before anymore confusion arises. Just because you fan me does not mean I will do the same back. Look at the small list of people I have fanned. It means something to be fanned by me. I do not just fan anybody. Therefore, just because you have fanned me do not expect me to do the same, especially if you aren't even on my friends list. Also, do not ask me to put you on my family list. That, again, is for special people. Those on my family are either those I know in real life, have known for many years, or are just like family to me, hence the reason they are on family. There are no special benefits for being on my family other than me caring more about those on there. *shrugs* Therefore, give up hopes of being put on special lists by me.

Here's another addition...SO READ SLOWLY TO MAKE SURE YOU UNDERSTAND!! If you do not send some kind of note with your friend request, you will not be added as a friend. If you cannot take the time to say something, that tells me you will not take time to be a friend. I'm not on here for points. Doesn't matter to me if I have only 1 friend or 1000 friends...it's quality, not quantity. Also, that note you send must be more than just "add, rate, fan, etc." If you can't say something substantial, do not even bother. I will rate pics...the pics rated will usually be salute pics, unless I get to know you better and decide to go through all of your pics.

OKAY, LET'S GET THIS STRAIGHT. I'M FED UP WITH ALL OF THESE "ARE YOU SINGLE," "CAN I CALL YOU," "LOOK AT MY NSFW PICS" ETC. I AM VERY MUCH TAKEN. I AM NEWLY MARRIED...JUST GOT MARRIED ON 02 AUG 08. I AM HAPPY WITH MY HUSBAND AND HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO FREAKING INTEREST IN ANOTHER MAN!! IF ALL YOU WANT IS A WOMAN TO TALK DIRTY WITH, CYBER WITH, CAM WITH, ETC. GO FIND ANOTHER WOMAN BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT GETTING IT FROM ME. IF YOU SEND ME A MESSAGE LIKE THAT, EXPECT ANY FRIEND REQUEST TO BE DENIED OR BE REMOVED FROM MY FRIENDS LIST, IF YOU'RE ALREADY ON IT. NOW BACK TO OUR REGULARLY SCHEDULED PROGRAM, GETTING TO KNOW VERA.


Man, I don't know where to start. I'm 38 years old. I'm a short shit at a whole 5'1". I have auburn hair and hazel eyes. I am the mother of two gorgeous boys. I love my babies. They are my life. I am fighting for custody of my boys right now, due to unpleasant circumstances in their lives. I am happily taken and newly married. We just got married on 02 AUG 08. He has been my rock through the hard situation of me fighting for my boys and all we've found out they've been experiencing. I graduated in 2006 with my associates degree in office administration. The degree has specialties in the general office, medical office, computer software, and desktop publishing. I am currently trying to get my own business started up at home. I would be what is considered a virtual assistant. I would do office work for companies outside of my own home. This way they do not need to provide space or benefits for a person at their companies. Hmmmmm...what else...ahhhh, I know...I LOVE SCOOBY-DOO!!!!!!! LOL There isn't much Scooby stuff I don't own or like. ;-) Just because I'm 38 doesn't mean I can't love Scooby. I'm not quite sure what else to put down here right now. I'm a pretty blunt person. So, if you want to know something, just ask. I don't get embarrassed and I'll answer anything honestly. :-) I am a major bitch, so beware. I am not one of those backstabbing two-faced bitches you think about when hearing that word, though. I'm a straight-forward, blunt bitch. To give you an idea of what I mean, here is my definition of a bitch.

When I stand up for myself and my beliefs, they call me a bitch. When I stand up for those I love, they call me a bitch. When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts or do things my own way, they call me a bitch. Being a bitch means I won't compromise what's in my heart. It means I live my life my way. It means I won't allow anyone to step on me. When I refuse to tolerate injustice and speak against it, I am defined as a bitch. The same thing happens when I take time for myself instead of being everyone's maid, or when I act a little selfish. It means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I should be. I am outspoken, opinionated and determined. I want what I want and there is nothing wrong with that! So try to stomp on me, try to douse my inner flame, and try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me. You won't succeed. And if that makes me a bitch, so be it. I embrace the title and am proud to bear it.