"Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people" ~ Eleanor Roosevelt
"In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends." ~ Martin Luther King Jr.
“Hatred is the coward's revenge for being intimidated.” ~ George Bernard Shaw
I am a 39 year old woman that lives in North Carolina. For the most part, I grew up in Southern California.
A little bit about me....
I am just me -- good and bad. I am...... a bitch, opinionated, determined, sweet, open minded, out spoken, caring, giving, trusting, smart as fuck, and honest. If I like you, you know it. If I don't, you know that too..... I don't let many people close to me, but the ones I do can stay there forever..... I am a strong person who has occasional weak moments..... I put up with A LOT of shit, but when I am done, I'm done!...... I will do anything in the world I can for my true friends...... I am funny, in a dry sarcastic way...... I love to just sit back and watch people...... I trust too easily, but I can recognize bullshit. Whether I want to call you on it depends on my mood....... When I like a man, I fall quickly. When I am done, I forget about him just as quickly..... I get things done. I don't just think about them..... I like money, but don't NEED it to be happy or have fun...... I get bored really easy. So something or someone has to stay interesting, or I find something else..... I love to travel, and will take off to who knows where at a moments notice..... I hate talking on the phone, but I am a textaholic...... Most people don't like me when they first meet me, which is fine with me...... Most people are intimidate by me and I love that...... Don't ask me a question if you aren't prepared for an honest answer..... I cry when I am pissed...... I have little tolerance for stupidity, ignorance, and bullshit..... I have LEARNED to walk away from a bad situation. But if it comes to it, I will beat someone's ass and love doing it...... I am faithful to my friends and my man...... I love attention, most of the time..... I NEED my coffee..... I am extremely shy.... I only buy 400 count sheets or higher... You can talk all you want about me, I don't care. I know who I am. But I will get pissed to hell if you talk about my friends....
I am here to meet new people both men and women. This is a website PERIOD. It is a place to have fun. If you are about something else - like drama, depression, hate, lies.... anything like that - DO NOT approach me with it, DO NOT ADD ME. I will not entertain you by responding to negative stuff. I have no problem adding people to my block list.
I am NOT here to hook up with anyone. I am NOT looking for a man. I am NOT looking for dick. Please don't send me a message asking if I am with anyone or if I want to get with you. I am extremely happy in the relationship I am in now. And there is nothing you can do to change that. Please respect that. I do flirt from time to time. But this is the Internet - it is harmless. My heart and the rest of me are for one person only. If you take silly flirting as meaning anything, that is just pathetic.
If you are on my page, please just add me as a friend if you want to. There is no point to coming to my page just to tell me I can go to yours to add you as a friend. To be honest, I don't get to see all my comments. Sometime they are gone by time I get a chance to check.
I DO NOT ADD BAGHEADS. I also do not add people with a cartoon or a pic of a car etc as their one and only pic.
Fugifts are pretty much annoying to me. So if you do send one, please have something to say. Something that is more than what you could have left in a comment. The only thing more annoying than empty fugifts are multiple empty fugifts.
Don't send me your email address and ask me to email you back or send pics. I mean seriously, the chances of me actually talking to you on here are very slim, why the fuck would I email you?
Quick stats:
36DD-27-38 all natural hazel/green eyes dark brown hair 5'9" no shoes 140 lbs. Size 10 shoes
YIM: hard2handle_fubar
After being on here for awhile, I see that I need to clarify a few things.
PLEASE READ BEFORE SENDING ME A PRIVATE MESSAGE.....
I am NOT a bouncer or admin. Please DON'T ask me for help. If you need help, click the "Help" link in the upper right hand side of your screen.
I hate the shoutbox. I rarely have it on. And if I do, that doesn't mean I am sitting by my computer waiting for you to send me a message. Please don't use it because I probably won't respond. Just leave whatever you have to say as a COMMENT.
JUST BECAUSE I AM LOGGED ON, DOESN'T MEAN I AM HERE. THAT GOES FOR MESSENGER AND ANY OTHER SITE YOU SEE ME ON.
I DO NOT do chain letters, messages, comments, whatever you want to call it. I appreciate you thinking of me and leaving a comment, but know in advance -- I am not going to return it. So if you are counting on me to help bring you the luck, love or money the chain is promising -- you are going to come up short.
I have private messages set to family only. The only way someone outside of my family can send me a message is to send me a fugift with a message or to reply to a bulletin I post. Please understand this does NOT mean I will actually read it. I get tons of messages a day, and unfortunately I do not have the time to read them all.
Please don't message me and ask me when I am going to come and comment on all 200 of your pictures. Realistically, I probably will never make it over to your pictures. I am sorry, but with over 114,000 friends and counting -- that is just being honest. If that is unacceptable to you, don't add me as a friend. I know it is hard to comprehend, but I have other things going on in my life. I get around to my friends profiles when I have an interest in it. I didn't ask you to come and rate my pictures (I do appreciate those who do.), please don't insist I rush over to rate your pictures.
Please do not send me a message that asks a question that is answered on my page, I will not reply. If you haven't taken the time to read what is here, why should I take the time to write back to you?
I appreciate all requests to be added as a friend, but you don't have to thank me in a private message.
I have found that fubar has a lot of racist people. I do not tolerate racism. Don't like it? I really couldn't care less. If you leave a comment on my page or at a pic that shows your ignorance, I will not take it down. You are not hurting me. I just feel that your own words say more than anything I could possibly say. Of course, you are probably too stupid to understand what I just typed.
Please don't waste your time sending me messages asking me to prove that the pics are really me. They are. Don't believe me? I really couldn't care less.
Guys -- Please don't ask me if I want to see pictures of your dick or watch you on cam -- I don't. I know you feel your dick is the best in the world, but I don't want to see it. I know -- it is my loss.
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(last updated:November 9, 2009 @ 4:06 pm)
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