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Blood Tests

today was the day raven had been really scared of, i mean really scared, dont think i expected just how scared she was, let me explain .... raven has a phobia of needles and the unknown, because she has never had a blood test before she didnt know what to expect or how it was going to be, which made her feel worse, i was unbelievable nervous for her, dont think ive been as nervous for a blood test before, expeshially when it wasnt even me having it. anyway, the time came for us to make our way to the doctors once there we booked in again and waited, rave was shakin she was seriously scared, then her name was called, she really didnt want to go in at all but she knew she had to for our baby. once in the nurses room, rave saw all the needles and test tubes and she just said to the nurse, ive never had a blood test before, im scared of needles and if my blood pressure was taken it would be through the roof, the nurse said its ok and settled her into the chair, and explained to her what she was gonna do, i went and sat on the bed cuz it was a really small room, and to be honest i thought the bed might have been better for rave cuz i thought she was gonna faint. i looked at raven as the nurse was talkin to her and she was crying, i didnt realize just how bad her phobia was until that point, it made me feel awful cuz i couldnt cuddle her while she was havin it done, she looked so scared and the tears, was unbareable, i hate to see her cry on a normal day let alone a day when she has to have something like that done, i was really shocked at how worked up and just how bad of an ordeal it was for her. on a good point, raves blood was really rich in colour and looke really healthy, so i feel good about the results of the tests, am so proud of rave for the tests, she did really well, and she did it for the baby, i know if she had a choice in it if she wasnt pregnant she wouldnt have had it, so im seriously proud of her. now all we have to do is wait for the results. raven after she left the nurses office said i was worked up for nothing i only startde to feel it when the third tube was filling up lol, i had to smile to myself, we had told her it was nothing but to someone with a phobia of needles and of not knowing what to expect its a really big thing, but rave is feelin better about it now and is glad it is over, and so am i. until the next blood test nothing more to worry about lol.
Today was teh day we find out whats what and so on, been a bit of a wait for this and the nerves are setting in big time, not knowing what to expect or anything so we are going in blind lol. once at the medical centre we booked in and took a seat in the waiting area, we were there about half an hour before been called, ravens name came up on the board for her to go and see the midwife now. so we both got up and walked down the corridor to see the midwife, not knowing which door it was, but fortunatly the midwife came out, we knew we were gonna see a male midwife to begin with so naturally there was nerves about that too. the midwife must have known we were pretty nervous cuz straight away he made us feel comfortable, hes a very funny person and he has a kind nature too which will help raven a lot, shes worse than me for the nerves lol, altho i think it was pretty even that day lol. we went in and sat down but he didnt do anything straight away, we had a little chat and so on i think that was to get to know us a bit better and make us relax some, eventually he told us what was going to happen in that appointment and basically nothing much lol, it was more a form filling, info giving appointment made to give you advice and to tell you what to expect and so on, and there were going to be some basic test things do but nothing painful lol. firstly he took ravens blood pressure, which was good, he asked us if we had a water sample and of course yes we did, and raven the little shit lol j/k had made me carry it haha, he checked for protien in it and that was fine, and then he checked her weight, rave didnt like that at all, but i still love her. so once that was done it was basically it, he told us that we would have to go see a secondry health professional, a constultant at the hospital because of ravens weight, but rave knew that would happen, and shes dredding it, but im sure she'll be fine. and then told us to book a blood test, you should have seen raves face, it was a right picture of fear, she has a big problem with needles and has never had a blood test before, so she was naturally quite scared, but the sooner its over the better for her. anyways that was the end of the appointment and was some good info too, now all we have to do is wait for the appointments to come through the post and for the blood test to be done. we went to the reception and booked the blood test, its on tuesday, so rave was a little scared but its understandable. ill be there for her and she will be just fine and do great.
We had decided to go to ravens hometwon for her 21st birthday, and the week was amazing, but raven just wasnt herself, i felt there was something wrong but i didnt know what it was or if it was me being my usually self thinking into things too much, so i left it at that. The week flew by, we saw all raves friends and had a fun filled week, i really enjoyed it, but the week was comming to an end and it was friday afternoon, i was sat in the room with amandas fiancee and the girls were in the kitchen. Id heard raven sniffling like she'd been crying, so i went in to investigate and comfot her, i hate to see her down or upset. as i walked in and looked over to raven, she turned to me and said, 'hello daddy' i stud dead in my tracks not fully realizing what she'd just said, i said what, and she said again, 'hello daddy' and showed me a test she had just taken, and sure enough she was pregnant. my heart came up into my mouth and the biggest lump in my throat id ever had, not wanting to cry infront of everyone i held back the tears and was speachless, so many feelings running through me from happyness came shock, and nervousness cuz id not expected it and the thought of becomming a father finally after 10 years of wanting children brought an overwhelming sense of everything over me, i just cant explain. i just held raven in my arms and cuddled her while she cried with joy. Her mum and her sister were crying too, jason was smiling and makin sarcastic but congratulating comments to me to try and get ppl laughin, dont think he liked how all the girls were crying, makin him not know what to do, same here i didnt know where to turn or what to say or do i was in complete shock, but a good shock. so finally i said i think this calls for coffees lol, and everyone agreed, there was only 4 of us and what usually takes me 5 minuits to make them, i was at it half an hour cuz i just couldnt focus on them with all the thoughts of raven and a baby, a baby of my own which i thought id never have, my dreams come true and i as the happiest man alive, im finally gonna have a family i can call my own. raven was cuddling her mum all the time i was doing the drinks and still crying, she too had wanted it for so long and was gettin so down over not been able to concieve earlier, but paitients is a vertue and we finally atcheived everything we had wished for. once everything calmed down ravens family left us in the kitchen together for some time for us, and we just stud and cuddled each other, we never spoke, we just cuddled, we didnt need to speak, we knew what each of us were thinking and feeling, we have that kind of bond, and it was one of the more moving times in my life, holding my family in my arms, i was overjoyed and couldnt wait to hold the baby. once everything had calemd down we started to phone and text everyone we knew, the phone calls kept comming the txts we recieved were awesome, lots of support and congrats from everyone, while we txting and phoning around, we started to get ready to go out, and tell everyone, theres too much to talk about on here for that but lets just say the responce we got was nothing id have expected, thought just a few ppl would would give us their blessings and congrats ect, but no, EVERYONE did, i was shocked to see exactly how many people wished us both all the best and even spoke to me, i REALLY felt like part of the barnsley troop now, and made me wanna get up there even quicker. all in all it was the best night of my life and i know for a fact it was ravens too.

The Journey Of Life

Finding out my partner was pregnant was the best feeling in the world. the next few blogs i will be working on are blogs over the last 8 months, our visits to doctors midwives and hospital, the ups and downs and gettin things ready for the baby to arrive with us in a few short weeks. i hope you enjoy reading the comming blogs, and enjoy the journey of bringing new life into the world i am about to share with you all. Take Care Chris xx
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