Real Name: Wesley aka Wes
Rank: First Class Petty Officer
Friends since: March 2007
Likes: Boobs, Jets, Boobs
Dislikes: Being vulnerable, cock blockers
Considering I joined in 2006 and have deleted nearly all of my fubar friends, Supe is now one of my oldest online pals. I can categorize my friendship with Supe into three timeframes… pre break, post break, and post Emanon. It wasn’t until after my year long hiatus (post break) that we started speaking on a regular basis.
Little known fact: Supe invited me to a mumm community outside of fubar shortly before I left the Fu for a year. That is the first time I remember seeing his peen.
Pre Break: The first half of our fu-friendship I don’t remember him, so either we didn’t talk often, or I didn’t care. Either is possible.
Post Break: Upon returning, I actually started talking to Supe and remembering it. :p So this is where I shall begin.
Supe & I started in the mumms. He was a funny dude, so I hung around more and more. I assumed our initial friendship had more to do with the fact that I had large breasts than anything else. I mean, after seeing his page, who could help but wonder. Boobs, boobs, boobs. I figure, this is one of those guys who is obsessed. He can’t see anyone for anything other than the size of their bra.
I mean, let’s dissect this about me:
..........Originallly from New York City...... (Misspelled the first word. Not good. From NY, cool, I like NY. )
I miss home ..but it s too damned expensive........…(he’s poor, figures I would find him interesting)
6 ft 265 lb black male........Just getting to know the area.......…(ok, big dude, cool)
Did I mention I love lots and lots of hot, nasty sweaty,earth shattering sex??......LOL.........I guess I just did....…(ok, well he’s a perv. He’s getting laid a lot, so I’m thinking he’s a player)
Im also a big fan of New York sports teams..........Yankees Knicks ( even though they suck) and of course the New York Jets!!!!!!!!.…(He IS from NY, makes sense)
Im a big fan of the oppposite sex (as if you havent figured that out already)...…(yes, you already mentioned you were a perv, now I know you’re not a gay perv)
I dont have many dislikes but the one thing I dont like are loaded questions...........(the opposite sex are good at asking those types of questions)…(so you ARE gay?)
Other than that im a laid back easygoing bro............Add me, fan me .......gimme a shout.........I'd love to talk to some of you lovely ladies........Thanks!!!!!!!! (he didn’t say rate me bling me, so not a total point whore. )
Hmmm, so from this I get that he is a NYC loving, sports loving, Pervert. But, I am a perv too, so I stick around.
Funny. I found him to be very funny. If I was in a bad mood, I could call, or text. Ha, speaking of funny calls… little known fact: our first few convos were so awkward that I had sworn off talking to him on the phone at one point. SILENCE… hmmmm. .. SILENCE… sooooooo…. Ha…. SILENCE. BAD!!!!!! But it finally worked itself out.
So we got to talking daily. Like I said, funny guy, and I appreciate humor. We talk about our days, sex, family, upbringings, insecurities… all of the above. We decide to meet sometime, but no rush. YAY! Life is good. We begin to talk about other people on the Fu, and our relationships with the people in our life, I mention Keens, all is well… I mention Mon Apollo all is well. He tells me about his “friend Kim” which I will discuss more in depth later. Then one day, Supe introduces me to a mummer named Emanon. Emanon and I were non speaking friends prior to my departure of Fuland… and now we begin to speak.
POST EMANON: One of the things Supe & I talked about a lot were open relationships and the sort of relationships that we were both interested in. We did not see eye to eye on the subject, I could tell, despite what he often said to the contrary.
At first, we (Emanon, Supe, and I) were all a happy threesome of pals. YAY. Emanon was very intriguing to me, and Supe was well aware of this. Supe spoke of he and I going to NY to visit Emanon.
But our little three way friendship, was soon to begin to crumble, as it often does when the idea of the other man is introduced into an open “Relationship”. Men are all for more women, but can’t handle another man with “their woman”. And in our little online world, Emanon was the other man. Soon I met emo Supe. Emo Supe, at first only came out when the martinis had been flowing. It started with wanting to know if I “spoke” to Emanon, then little cuts and jabs about it, then the “I know where I stand” crap. From there it all went to hell.
Now let’s back track a bit before we get too far off point. I have IRL fuck buddies, that Supe is aware of. He goes as far as to occasionally chat with one of them. With the exception of the occasional emo battle cry “I know where I stand”, he is ok with this. But for some reason, he was exhibiting signs of jealousy/discomfort/fear in regard to a man I had never met, spoken to, or knew irl. To top it all off, during this transition to weirdness, I get a call from Supe’s FWB telling me to stay away from her man and a slew of other things. Well this came as quite a shock to me, as fwb don’t usually steal a phone, go through it, and call up friends of their fuck bud to stake their claim. He says she is crazy, I say he isn’t being honest. My opinion, is that Supe & Kim never REALLY broke up. Maybe they are cooler than they were, but still together none the less. So let’s take a look at some similarities between my fwb relationship and his…
Supe & Kim dated / Keen & I dated
Supe & Kim Break up? / Keen & I break up
Supe & Kim hook up / Keen & I hook up
Kim goes through her fuck buds phone / Keen isn’t that stupid or possessive over something that isn’t his
Kim then calls a random chick and goes off on her / Keen laughs as I tell him about this
Supe says she is crazy and must take away the dick / I have nothing to do, by pet is well behaved
Supe still hooks up with crazy chick / Keen still laughing about the fact that he plays it off as fwb
OK, beyond that we also have some interesting facts:
Supe can only talk when HE calls you, never the other way around.
Supe still has “I Love YOU” and “My Woman” under all her pics
He never speaks of any other women except those that he sees at work, not going out to meet any one or anything.
She has/had his password to get on his account OR had access to the house to get on his account when he didn’t log out.
Ya… I know right! Scandal.
Little known fact: Supe has asked me to marry him more than any man I know, including my ex fiancé.
So, here we are, we talk on occasion. About nothing much at all. I have lost respect for who I thought he was, which may be someone I just wanted him to be. I still care for him as a friend, but it just isn’t quite the same.
So my Superman truths:
Supe is a funny fellow
He wants to be in love
He can find the good in people, even if no one else sees it
He wants to be a kinkster, but his attempts are more silly than dominant
He tries to hard to be what he believes people want rather than just being himself sometimes
He doesn’t trust men, and in time, will stop trusting women
He is often awkward in his own skin, but wears it well when he can just relax
He is laid back outwardly but has a million fears running through his head
He is incredibly flirtatious although similar qualities in a partner are frowned upon regardless of what he says
He is more jealous than he will let on
He has deep running unresolved issues with his GF/EX/FWB, whatever she is
He has a fundamental respect for people
He is unsure of how he feels on topics such as religion, relationships, and many basic things, probably because he is more willing to please the other person than be true to himself in those areas
He is codependent to a point, and this will cause him more problems in the long run
He can be overconfident bordering on cocky at times, and show little to no self esteem other times
He takes things to literally
He uses the word YO entirely too much
He hasn’t spoken to Emanon since the false engagement probably because he fears there is still something more to the friendship that is being let on, and rather than blaming me, he blames him due to his distrust of men
He is extremely emotional and seems oblivious to it
He craves attention and has been a little obnoxious at times trying to get it (aka point whore, rate whore, fake pics in default)
He is a kind hearted person, and will be loyal to anyone who will allow him to be
Um, oh Supe and I never dated, never met, and are not and never were married (I have gotten all of those questions before)
*Supe wanted me to add that he doesn't do well around Male A Type personalities.
Hmmmm, so that is my rant on Supe…. I was unsure of the format I wanted to use, how much detail I wanted to get into, and that sort of thing. Hopefully they flow better from here on out. We shall see… up next week… Emanon