Everyone is important and there's very people in this world I would give my own life for and fight someone about. I was raised to respect women and childeren and elders. One of the things that pisses me off the most is how a asshole of a man can treat a woman or baby like shit and that there no good, especially babies. They don't ask to be brought in this world, but there here and they deserve all the love and support they can get. When I father rejects his on baby or babies then he is rejecting a part of himself cause that's part of his blood running thru his childs vien. A father should be beg to spend time with there child because they have it lucky. There's fathers out there that can't even see there child or children. A baby is a blessing on this Earth and women have deserve lots of respect cause they have to carry another living person(s) inside them for 9 months or sometimes shorter. I value a childes life over my own cause i've lived here for almost 28 years and they still have there whole life to live and grow up. My family is very important in my life and love them all. I feel the same way about children. If I could give my life to save a childs life I would or donate blood or bone marrow just do whatever I can to save a childs life. To me the lowest thing a man can do is hit a woman and a child. I have friends on and off myspace that have been physcially, verbally, and mentally abused. I understand if a woman comes at you with a weapon to do you harm you have the right to defend yourself, but to do it cause you have had a bad day or just frustrated is not called for. Just cause you have the ability to hit someone doesnt' give you the right to. To me I think the worst abuse you can do is verbal and mental. They can have an impact of how she percieves herself and lowers her selfesteem I have a friend whose ex told her that she wanted her to land on her face my advice is that's a good thing to tell her cause that gives her motivation to succeed in life and be the best parent she can be and throw it back in his face. No man should see a woman with a child or children as extra luggage. Like I said earlier that a child does not ask to be born in this world so they dont' deserve to be treated like that. All children are special no child is born in this world good or bad it's all bout how they are raised and brought up. Children are our future and if were raised with bad ideas and beliefs then what kind of future does that leave there children. Fatherhood is a great title to have. Any guy can make a baby but it takes a man to be a dad. My own dad passed away Sept. 28 2004 and I was glad to have him in my life as long as I did and i miss him everyday. A child deserves to be loved with your whole heart wheter you know the child or not. I've never judged a woman if they have kids. A woman with kid(s) can date someone but that child will have there heart and soul and they have to know that her child comes first above all else. If someone can't be that understanding doesn't need to hang around. I know a girl that dated a guy and asked her to give up her kids to her parents. I don't know bout any of yall but a guy that says that doesn't need to date any woman with kid(s). I don't won't yall think i'm saying any of this stuff to impress or make myself look good in front of yall this is just stuff I believe, I value a childs life over my own. I love any children probally i'm always good with them but I still hav never changed a diaper before. but my day is coming. PRAY FOR ME that I don't get peed on lol Well yall take care
