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What a kiss means.. actually read the whole thing cause its nice!
+ Kiss on the stomach = I'm ready
+ Kiss on the Forehead = I hope we're together forever
+ Kiss on the Ear = Your my everything
+ Kiss on the Cheek = We're friends
+ Kiss on the Hand = I adore you
+ Kiss on the Neck = We belong together
+ Kiss on the Shoulder = I want you
+ Kiss on the Lips = I love you

What the gesture means...
+ Holding Hands = We definitely love each other
+ Slap on the Butt = That's mine
+ Holding on tight = I don't want to let go
+ Looking into each others Eyes = I just plain love you
+ Playing with Hair = Tell me you love me
+ Arms around the Waist = I love you too much to let go
+Laughing while Kissing = I am completely comfortable with you

--ADVICE!--
+ Don't ask for a kiss, take one.
+If you were thinking about someone while reading this, you're definitely in Love

--REQUIREMENTS--
+ Post this again after reading!!

If you LIKE, LOVE, OR MISS someone right now and can't get them out of your head
then Re-post this within One Minute and Whoever you are missing will surprise you;)

When you fall in love, it is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake, and then it subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots are become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the desire to mate every second of the day. It is not lying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every part of your body. No... don't blush. I am telling you some truths. For that is just being in love; which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over, when being in love has burned away. Doesn't sound very exciting, does it? But it is!"
Shawn Slovo
"Captain Corelli's Mandolin"

I don't think I have any blog followers but I have always foung writing a good form of therapy for myself so here I go...

I'm an optimist and believe in the power of positive thinking,

I also believe that when you truly love someone you do all you can to allow their light to shine to the world so that everyone can see the beautiful person you found,

Unfortunately, sometimes this leads to loosing the one you loved, but if that is the case then it is important to remember they never really were yours and truth is you did not mean the same to them. 

If one tells you they could not find the balance for themself to keep them happy in your relationship, shame on them for not bringing thier best.

Here's to all the lonely people, thinking that love has past you by,  Don't give up, cuz' you never know until you try :)  I'm having to remind myself of that these days,

A Lover’s Plea

Shall I come, sweet Love, to thee,
When the evening beams are set?
Shall I not excluded be?
Will you find no feigned let?
Let me not, for pity, more
Tell the long hours at your door.

Who can tell what thief or foe
In the covert of the night
For his prey will work my woe,
Or through wicked foul depite?
So may I die unredressed,
Ere my long love be possessed.

But to let such dangers pass,
Which a lover’s thoughts disdain,
‘Tis enough in such a place
To attend love’s joys in vain.
Do not mock me in thy bed,
While these cold nights freeze me dead.

Thomas Campion 1567-1620

I should have known...

The reasoning was not right and besides I had resolved myself sooo many years ago,

I don't know what/why I was hopeful.

I never needed the the status before, I certainly don't need it now!

If it is meant to be it will still last a lifetime, just without the same benefits

It is what it is...

 

Hey, like it or not, we are all 'state' inducers.
 
Whenever we have an interaction with someone, even if it's
just a hello, we leave them with a definite feeling. 
 
What do you think people feel about us when we're walking
around with a sour puss on?  
 
No one wants to be around that.
 
Do you?  
 
Do you go out and search for the complainers?  If you do,
notice the topic of your typical conversations.  Are they
usually centered on what's wrong, who said what rotten
thing, what someone had the gall to ask you to do?  In
short, whining sessions?
 
Look, you are what you think.  You get back what you put
out.  If you put out cheerfulness, then that's how people
will treat you back.
 
Did you ever hear the centuries-old story about the old
man who sat next to the road and greeted people who entered
and exited just outside his small village? 
 
When travelers came in, often they would ask what kind of
people were in the town.  The man responded by asking them
what the people were like in the town they just left.  If
the traveler said the people were terrific, the man told
them that he'd find the people in this town were much the
same.
 
If the traveler said the other town had horrible people in
it, the man said that they'd find the people here much the
same.
 
It kind of goes right along with another Your Day To Win
that talked about running from your problems.  The thing
is, you bring yourself with you wherever you go.  And since
you are what you think, the only way for you to escape your
problems is to change your attitudes.
 
If you understand that you induce states of mind in the
people that you meet all day, it brings it right to the
front of your consciousness, doesn't it?  People respond to
you whether you like it or not.
 
To my way of thinking, it's better to bring a smile than a
frown or pity or disdain.  Better than nothing either. 
What the heck!  It doesn't cost anything at all.
 
Just one person a day that you make smile will do
something amazing for them and...
 
...inside of you.  
I would like to challenge everyone to reflect on this message…
To get something you never had, you have to do something you never did.' When God takes something from your grasp, He's not punishing you, but merely opening your hands to receive something better. Concentrate on this sentence. .. 'The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.' Something good will happen to you today; something that you have been waiting to hear. I do believe in God and the statement above but I also believe in the power of the mind and the absolute effects of attitude. The secret is within ourselves.

New Secret Admirer Game

Ok I'm curious as to what is the point and how do you all feel about this new feature on FuBar? I'm having fun with it but I'd really like to hear from all my family, friends and fans.... "Secret Admirer" feat Lloyd

Below s a shout message that occured for me this morning. I have re-arranged the order so that you can read from top to bottom rather than the bottom to top we are all use to... (I will follow up below the chat message with my thoughts and comments) this shout is from...YOURWORSTNIGHTMARE YOURWORSTN...: what happened? ->YOURWORSTN...: ? YOURWORSTN...: no being mean just curious how you gain so much weight? ->YOURWORSTN...: LOL YOURWORSTN...: not meant to offend ->YOURWORSTN...: WOW well tell me what happened to you I've always been fat and frankly I've lost 73 pounds so far this year so thanks for the encouragement YOU DID NOT MAKE MY DAY YOURWORSTN...: so you are offended? YOURWORSTN...: hmmmm so it is true.. cant stand the truth? ->YOURWORSTN...: i know i'm fat i can handle the truth i didn't appreciate your assuming smethng happened to me YOURWORSTN...: if i may or should i just shut up? ->YOURWORSTN...: and as i stated i'm loosing so your comments blow me away ->YOURWORSTN...: you are very presumptous YOURWORSTN...: i just want to ask a health ? ->YOURWORSTN...: why ->YOURWORSTN...: why do you want to know anything about me YOURWORSTN...: because i dont understand why someone who obviously at one time was very in shape then gets out of shape? ->YOURWORSTN...: again you assume wrong YOURWORSTN...: i dont assume anything .. i can see im not that old ->YOURWORSTN...: i have always been obese why do you assume i wasn't ->YOURWORSTN...: what the fuck are you talking about ->YOURWORSTN...: or whos page are you looking at ->YOURWORSTN...: i've always been fat YOURWORSTN...: the pic your showing is thin goodbye fat cunt i was attempting to help you ->YOURWORSTN...: you need to know more before you speak at this point the shout ends cuz he has blocked me but I had wanted to say the pic your looking at is one of my newer pics... in it, I weigh probably 270 pounds I am not thin it is the angle of the photo and what you can see The problem for me is that after this shout message I spent a good 30 minutes in tears. I do not understand how people can be so cruel. If you don't like what you see don't look! And why wouldn't he take a moment to hear me out. I've always been fat (I have not been thin since I was 8 years old). I am trying to loose weight now but not for vanity reasons for health reasons. I want to live to be old and not die young because I can't control my weight. I do realize that I got rude and there is definite tone in my messages to him but I couldn't belive the assumption he was making and why he wouldn't believe what I was trying to tell him. I know I'm fat and frankly I don't think I'm beautiful although I appreciate every nice comment I receive from my friends here. I don't think I'm fat and ugly and I am grateful to those who can see me as attractive eventhough I'm fat. I'm "justme" and I put myself out here with all my shortcomings. I am open and honest and I can handle the truth but what he was saying wasn't true. My very best girlfrend still calls me a bitch because there was a time in my life that I was a bitch I had built a tough exterior to protect me from the daily cruelity I had been raised with. But I got lucky enough in later years to learn that I wasn't just the shape of my body. I learned that I was a good and caring person and a true and loyal friend and there were people who found me attractive eventhough I was obese. So I let go of my tough exterior so that I could show and share who I really am. To this day it bothers me that she still calls me a bitch and I bring this up because she and I just had this conversation again on Wednesday but she chooses to hold on to what she knew of me rather than to give me credit for whom I've become. I love her anyway but that hurts as much as the guy in this shout message not wanting to understand whay I was trying to tell him and only choosing to believe what he assumed to be the truth. But the point of all this is that none of us should judge by the pics we see here and/or make assumptions of whom a person is by what is posted here. THANKS FOR LETTING ME RANT I NEEDED TO GET THAT OUT SO THAT I COULD LET IT GO.... I LOVE THIS BAR!!!
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