What is the current divorce rate in America?
It is frequently reported that the divorce rate in America is 50%. This data is not accurately correct, however, it is reasonably close to actual. The Americans for Divorce Reform estimates that "Probably, 40 or possibly even 50 percent of marriages will end in divorce if current trends continue.", which is actually a projection.
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When did it become okay to cheat on your spouse? I know it’s been happening long before I ever started wondering this. It makes me think people get married for all of the wrong reasons. Seems these days a lot of people get married due to pregnancy, or soldiers going over seas. Worst mistake in the world. Just my opinion of course. I’m sure there are a lot of other reasons why people get married, just not enough of them are for love. Although even with love, there has been a fair amount of cheating.
When did cheating become so acceptable in society? It saddens me to know that so many young couples who obviously weren’t anywhere near ready to get married are now getting divorced before they ever really had a chance to enjoy marriage.
Let me ask you this... Why get married before you know you are actually ready to take that task on? Yes, I actually called marriage a task, which it is. Marriage is a lot of hard work on both people. I believe a successful marriage can happen for both younger and older people given the right amount of time and effort from day to day. I am nowhere near an expect on marriage, nor divorce, all of this is simply my opinions.
As of right now I know of at least 3 couples currently going through a divorce, or about to. All of which had a cheating spouse. Also all of which with the age range of 25 - 35 years of age. Worst part is ALL have children involved. I really feel bad for all of these children that will grow up in broken homes. Granted a lot of them have both a mother and a father present in the upbringing but frankly how well will these divorced couples get along for the sake of these children. Usually it’s very slim.
I am nowhere near perfect, but I am the best me I can be. Those words seem to be my new motto. Now if only others would read it and believe it. I may have done a lot of things in my life, cheating has been one of them so I am certainly not innocent in all of this. One thing I do know, if and when I get married it will be for life. I will make sure the person who I do marry is someone I want to spend the rest of my life with. I will make sure it’s someone I would want to have children with. I will certainly make sure that it is for love and no other reason but that.
I’ve judged people enough in this blog so here I will end it. I’m sure some will agree and others won’t. I am entitled to my opinion so here I have stated them. If you have input feel free to share. I will not bash nor delete comments left on the subject because they are your opinions and just as I stated mine, you are entitled to state yours.
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