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Friday, October 27, 2006 - 7:22 AM Children Learn What They Live By Dorothy Law Nolte, Ph.D. If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn. If children live with hostility, they learn to fight. If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive. If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves. If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy. If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy. If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty. If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence. If children live with tolerance, they learn patience. If children live with praise, they learn appreciation. If children live with acceptance, they learn to love. If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves. If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal. If children live with sharing, they learn generosity. If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness. If children live with fairness, they learn justice. If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect. If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those about them. If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.

< Back home | Subscribe | rss | add to blog group | sign out Jenn Last Updated: Nov 21, 2006 Send Message Instant Message Email to a Friend Subscribe Invite to My Blog Gender: Female Status: In a Relationship Age: 25 Sign: Pisces City: Middleburg State: FLORIDA Country: US Signup Date: 03/21/06 Tuesday, November 28, 2006 This is hard. Current mood: sad It is very sad. Everyday I have to watch Steven hurt more and more because his bitch of an ex won't let him see his kids at all. She won't even let him talk to them. He has tried to call her for the past week trying to get in touch with his kids. She didn't even have the gall to let them talk to him on Thanksgiving. So while she and everyone else was sitting down with they families eating dinner Steven was wishing he could just speak with his kids. He even called her mother to try to get them to talk her into letting him talk to them. Because of her hate for me she with holds them. I am glad he finally realized what type of person she is. I have watched him over the past couple of months grow more and more hate for her. I can only imagine what she is telling the kids as well. You know she is telling them that there father don't want to see that and that it is my fault that they can't see there dad. It is so sad how a woman's emotions and vindictiveness can do so much damage to innocent children. I wonder sometimes if she really cares for anyone but herself. I just wanted all my true friends support as much as possible on this hard issue. If you have any advice on how to get a woman to let go of her hate and see the devastation she is doing to her own kids then please let me know. I can use all the help I can get on this. I am not going to lie. It is so hard to sit back and watch the one you love very dearly have to go through this. I know right now there is nothing I can do but sit by his side and reassure him that everything will be ok in the future. In my eyes there is nothing more hard then not being able to see your own kids. She always claimed that she loved him but for someone who states she loves another she sure does enjoy putting him through a lot of pain. I don't think there is anything worse that a woman can do then use a man's kids against him out of anger and spite or for any reason. What is wrong with the world today? I think some people should have never been allowed to have children. Though I love Steven's kids and wouldn't change a thing I think his ex should have been one of those who were not granted the right to have children. If a women is going to use her own blood for vengeance and hate then what else is she capable of. Very sad, so very sad…..

< Back home | Subscribe | rss | add to blog group | sign out Jenn Last Updated: Nov 21, 2006 Send Message Instant Message Email to a Friend Subscribe Invite to My Blog Gender: Female Status: In a Relationship Age: 25 Sign: Pisces City: Middleburg State: FLORIDA Country: US Signup Date: 03/21/06 Friday, December 01, 2006 Life stays interesting!!! Current mood: depressed As life would have it Steven is going back to driving a truck sort of over the road. He found a really good job where he will at least be home every week. The closer he gets to it getting time to leave the more troubled I get for some reason. I know it will be fine and the company tells us he will be home every couple of days and have the weekends off but I still have that strange funny feeling. It's like since he came in back in July off the road we haven't spent a day apart. Steven has been awesome through all of my complaining and worries though. He said that is this job would affect our relationship in any way shape or form he would quit in a second. He keeps telling me that the job isn't worth losing us over and that he would find a job making less money but is home everyday. I know he would in a second but I still know how finances and life works. I know it will be alright and it will just take some getting use to. As everyone knows when we first met he drove a truck. Though we missed each other a lot everyday it was ok and we dealt with it. Now things are a little different. Our relationship has grown so much since then. It seems like forever ago when we first started dating. Even though I know we will miss each other dearly I believe that we will be fine. Our relationship has been though harder times and harder trials. Still I can't help but wonder how this will directly affect both of our lives. At first it didn't seem that long just spending a couple of days apart but now the closer it gets to become a way of life it seems like forever. We have agreed to give it at least a month and if we both still feel this strong about not liking it and if he isn't getting in as much as we would both like him to then he will quit. Hands down just walk away. It really made me feel good to know that he would do that for me. Even though he likes the company he will be working for and everything he would just walk away if asked him to. I promised Steven if it started affecting how I felt for him and our relationship then I would tell him in a hurry and I will stick to that. I know we will be able to talk everyday and we are going to get him a computer with hopefully a webcam for him and I. That would be nice so I could at least see him everyday. My mind keeps going in circles right now. I really do worry about him going back on the road. I have a fear that he might start liking it and not coming home at all, I have a fear that it will but to big of a strain and break us up. I have a fear that he might start missing how he once lived before me and go back to his ex. Then I start with the fears of him driving everyday, falling asleep, or getting in an accident and things like that. I can't wait for the next couple of weeks to be over so I can get over these childish fears and worries… Hmmmm, gotta love life's little twist and turns. For sure keeps it interesting….