what i want and im sure what every other girl wants in a man
and the same for what a guy wants in a girl(or guy what ever ur choice)
most ppl expect one to say "i want a guy/girl thats tall/thin built/small and has
money" yeah well thats all fine and dandy if you want a superficial
self absorbed brain dead person as a bf/gf. not i.
i want a man thats caring,honest,trust worthy,dependable,open hearted,
a comforter,a protector,my best friend as well as my lover,a great
personality,sense of humor,knows when to be serious,loves kids, communicates
on the regular basis COMMUNICATE COMMUNICATE COMMUNICATE cant emphasize
that enough (that i can COMMUNICATE with at all times) even if its just to talk about
useless everyday things youve got to communicate or you have nothing a guy that calls me by name
and not baby and sexy all the time
someone that respects me just as much as i respect them someone that loves
me for me that can separate online life with REAL LIFE and not drag it into
a relation where is doesnt belong that doesnt care that i cant fit into last years
tshirt a guy that is not a afraid to show his emotions no matter who is around
a guy that will talk to me about anything and everything and not be afraid
to hurt my feelings with what he has to say i would rather have my feelings
hurt by truth than a lie im not shallow on a persons looks or what they do for
a living ( looks do not last nor do jobs or money...they heart lasts and whats in it)
he can be leaving pay check to pay check and i wouldnt care as long
as he loves me the way god intended for a woman to be loved thats all that matters
to me
whats not needed in relationships
over baring,self centered,a control freak,thinks the hands on approach
is the best and only way to get his point across,has no problem with physical,emotional
or verbal abuse ( I HAVE A BIG FUCKING PROBLEM WITH IT!) a guy thats insecure all the time
questions someones love,feels the need to cheat and lie about it,flirts and talks
sexual to others (not to the one hes interested in...thats considered being a player) one who feels
the need to jump down ones throat for no reason but just to be doing it cuz it makes him feel better
about himself a hypocrite a liar one who thinks online life is REAL LIFE (ennnnt so fucking
wrong) a guy that talks whenever the mood strikes him one who tells you not to do this
and that but yet its ok for him to do it (BULLFUCKINGSHIT!!!! if i cant neither can you
dumb ass!) one thats continentally jealous because other show attention (fyi on that when you become
extremely jealous because others take notice to what you have thats gonna rub off on the person
your with and they will act the same way which will cause problems in the relationship down the line)
puts his main priorities last and unimportant unnecessary things 1st
quick to assume and jump to ones own conclusion when its clear that he dont
know jack effin shit about shit
and for gods sake call us something other than
baby and sexy god did give our parents enough brains to name us so freakin use it
basically whats MOSTLY WANTED in a(or future) bf/gf/wife/hubby
is someone that will take the time to get to know the real you
communicate with you as much as possible be there for you
treat you with respect love you for the person you are on the inside
as well as the outside trusts and is faithful and not effin worry
about what others around them are saying or doing
P.S. a girl can have any guy/girl that she sets her heart soul and mind to
so when you want to get jealous or upset over petty stuff take a breath and realize she chose you over EVERYONE that should tell
you something right there .......SHES YOURS NOT THEIRS you should cherish her like
she wont be here 2morrow....cuz she wont always be here
P.S.(2)
theres a huge diff in wanting and needing someone
a girl (i) doesnt want to be wanted......but needed
if your smart you know what the diff is in the 2
and if this bugs anyone or makes someone jump 2 conclusions on why i wrote it well shame on you
i wrote it to write its in MY ABOUT ME ON MY PAGE
HAS ALWAYS BEEN THERE
