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created on 06/20/2007  |  http://fubar.com/proud-mom/b93482

Insurance ripoffs

I have the misfortune of dealing with a long term disability insurance company. By dealing, I mean jumping through hoops. Even though it is a company policy to replace my wages, they are trying to find a pre-existing condition to nullify my claim. I am at a point where I will have to borrow from some very good friends just to survive. I have no options when it comes to customer complaints. I haven't been approved yet. I still have to find info from 2005 including dr names, prescriptions and their numbers, treatments, names and numbers for all the places I was treated or seen, as well as their fax numbers. And of course it is taking time. 3 weeks so far. And the agent just keeps saying it is the policy that dictates the info needed. They even want copies of my MRI to make sure the dr isn't in on any scheme. Aren't people innocent until proven guilty anymore? I just have to wait until they decide to tell me if I am approved and what they will pay out for my living expenses. I have to pay for my benefits including their premium out of the small amount they allow. I hope it is at least 1/2 my take home. At least I will have a roof over my head. Maybe, if I can keep up the loan payment. I am at a point where I understand why people go postal. If I am ever called for jury duty in such a case I will make sure I get on the jury so I can help them get a fair shake. Lets hope that Karma is in my favor and the agent gets what he deserves.

Wedding

Today is wed June 20th. Sat June 23rd my son is getting married. It is a busy 2 1/2 days before the event. I was thinking back on all that has happened since Aug 22 1979. That is the day we brought him home from North Platte Ne. He weighted 4lbs 12 oz. I was afraid he would break but I couldn't put him down. Brian is adopted. I was so afraid we would never get him. Not knowing it was a him. I wanted a child so bad I cried myself to sleep for 3 yrs. I tried not to let it interfere with my daily life. In the end it was one of the reasons for the end of my marriage. But I could never even think of my life without Brian. The terrible 2's didn't prepare me for the horrendous teens. I can laugh now but at the time I was so worried. He was a very strong willed person in his own right. He had a temper that he used a few times. Even broke his hand hitting the wall because I told him he couldn't go out at 9pm on a school night. 16 has to be the beginning of the turnaround. He had football to help keep him from going too wrong. He was GOOD! When the couch from K State told him his school record was to bad to consider him for a scholarship, he cried, boy did he cry for almost 2 weeks. Then he started working hard at school. Getting up at 6:00 to be at school by 7:00 for extra classes. He took freshman and sophomore english at the same time in his junior year. Junior and senior english his senior year. He went to a community college to try to learn what he missed in high school. Then he met Jamie. I think he was smitten from the start. Christmas 98 and Valentines day 99 the romance was growing. Bryce is my Valentines day gift. He didn't get here until Nov 26th, but he will always be my Cupid grandson. He moved in with her and helped raise her 2yr old son as well as their newborn. He worked midnight to 8 so she could work evenings and they didn't have to spend 3/4 of the their money on babysitting. They bought a house after 2 yrs and moved in. He remodeled every room in the place. Just before Bryce's 6th birthday he asked her to marry him. The friday before Halloween. Her answer was " About Time!!!" At Bryce's birthday party they confirmed Caleb was on the way. He arrived July 17th surrounded by his 2 brothers Treston and Bryce. I now have a Halloween present. All 3 kids will be in the ceremony. I will have a GIANT sized box of tissues next to me at the church. I have one next to me now as I type this. When he was little some days I couldn't get 5cents a pound for him. Now I wouldn't take a Billion. I am so greatfull to his birth mother. I have sent updates to the agency thru the years. I will send a note about Caleb and the wedding. I know she gets them. I hope she is as happy as I am right now. I can never tell her how I feel. There are no words. Deb

Wedding Day!!!!!!

It is 2:40am Sunday June 24th. I am just winding down from the last few frantic days. My son got married Saturday the 23rd. He gave me the daughter I never had. Jamie has the patience of a saint and she loves my son. She is a reasonably decent mother to the 3 grand kids. No body is a perfect parent. Not even me. But now I can tell every one I have a daughter-in -law. I now have bragging rites for all 3 boys. Treston is now officially a step grandson. I have been his grandma since he was 2yrs old. And you know that doesn't make me feel old. 3 grandsons. Wow! A girl would have been nice, but I just can't imagine not having Treston and his obsession for his Game Boy. Or what would I do with out Bryce and his leprechaun smile. Or Caleb who has the most wonderful disposition and infectious smile. Nope not old at all. Just very very happy. And looking forward to the next big event. Caleb and Trestons combined birthday party. Good night. I know I will sleep well.
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