I am a single Black male, 6'0 about 195lbs. with an Athletic build.I do not smoke, nor do I indulge in drugs of any kind. I'm also a social drinker, and very clean and healthy.............My ideal match is someone in touch with who they are as a person, and an independent Woman. Someone who is very much in touch with her inner child. She freely shares the beauty of her Smile, and like me, she covets hugs, hugs, and more hugs. She believes in touching, not just with hands, but also with your inner feelings and emotions. Together, we believe in honesty, trust, friendships, intimacy, Kissing, humor, good verbal communication, massages, jazz, bubble baths, scented candles,and last but not least-chocolate covered strawberries.The woman I seek, will not walk behind me, nor in front of me, but always by my side. She will always know that I am there for her, in good and bad times. I will always listen with an open heart, free of judgements, and assumptions. My shoulder will always be available if there should ever be a need to cry on it, and I will always be there to listen if that is what is needed, or just to talk out a problem or a decision that is weighing heavy on her mind........................My Passion is Raw, and unbridled-and I hope the Women who comes into my life has the passion to match mine. So, if I have in any way piqued your intrest, feel free to contact me, and if nothing else we will become Friends! You can never have to many Friends!!!I will not allow others to define me, their by defining my personal boundaires by their own egotistacal misconceptions.My Uniqueness and selfworth shall not be deformed to fit into the narrow mindset of conformity. I believe that the roads leading to the Truth are as varied as the individuals who seek it.Contentment is not the fulfillment of what you want, But the realization of how much you already have.................I would like to think that each circumstance is a gift! And in each experience, there is a hidden treasure. If we are lucky sometimes, we meet someone who thinks the veil between here and eternity, and a kind of music and light comes through and swells the Heart and takes your breath away! Like everyone else using this medium, I am seeking my Treasures; with grace and quiet confidence. Seeking to find the greatest of all Treasures..............THE GIFT OF LOVE........NO SMILE IS SO BEAUTIFUL, AS THE ONE THAT STRUGGLES THROUGH TEARS...............WE MUST BE WILLING TO GET RID OF THE LIFE WE'VE PLANNED, SO AS TO HAVE THE LIFE THAT IS WAITING FOR US...............