KellyBabyxxFEARxx's blog: "MEN"

Have you ever loved and lost? --This was written by my best friend's ex husband.... it is amazing! Deployboink is his name and he said I could borrow it :) Women think with their emotions. Emotions dictate a woman's actions. Men think with their little head or logic. I am talking more about the logic thinking. Everyone already understands the little head thinking. A woman's emotions dictate what they do. It is simple. A man on the other hand argues with his emotions. There is a battle between logic and his feelings. Usually logic wins. That is not always a good thing. These battles can and usually produce bad results. A man can have true love right in front of his face and throw it away due to this battle. Don't worry, the man usually realizes it after it is too late. That should be comforting for all of you that wish that the man would be just as miserable as you. It is just like those "chick flick" movies except the man is too stupid to make it to the happy ending part. I have been part of the idiot disease before also. I do not think any man is immune. It would be nice if there was a pill or shot to boost the immunity to the idiot disease. Come on scientists. What have you been doing? Just as in women there is a recovery that can happen. That is about the only similarity. The man can recover from the pain that he has caused to himself and others due to his internal battle. The hard part for most men is the ability to learn from their experience. Some can recover from the idiot disease and others carry it around like luggage and never recover. As with everything else recovery starts with knowing being half of the battle. In order for this recovery they just need to surrender the logic from time to time and let their emotions have center stage. I have found that the more mature a man gets the more he can function in life and love situations. Notice I didn't say the older he gets. Age does not always correspond to maturity in men. There is hope for the future. Men need to just wake up and women need to understand the idiot disease.