Looks vs Personality vs GAME.
which is you..?
From a gender standpoint, they say :
fellas go for looks, and da ladies go for personality..
A guy with good game, or verbal-rap-ability (as I call it.. haha)
has 1 up on any guy with none (looks or otherwise).
And chic with good looks has 1 up on any women...
But my original thoughts were, that would change as we get older
and more mature.... Shhhh*t, who am I kidding.. haha
Some things do change, but it always boils to GAME.
Reguardless of gender, if you got GAME, you're gonna get served...
HOLLA.. hahahaa
I know some of you are like, what da hell are you talkin about Rome..
but let me break it down...
An ugly woman who talks like she's gonna put out,
will get attention and possibly more....
So, there goes the idea that men go for looks first...
A chic on a mission, can and will go home with the best looking
guy she can find..
So, there goes women wanting brains first.
Men are from Mars, and Women are from Venus..
F*CK dat.. hahaha
It all boils down to da fellas want nookie...
So, nookie drives the universe,
and there's always a need for nookie.. haha
So, that means women rule the universe...? hmmmm
could be... wait, did I just say that.? hahaha
let me break it down a lil further..
Females like to be the center of most things,
and since they have the nookie, then they must rule the universe.?
very interesting.. hmmmm, hahahaha
but I'm gettin off the topic.. hahaha
Ok, back to to da topic, looks vs personality vs GAME.?
Most fellas want a serious, loyal, intelligent, woman by day,
and a freak by night chic.. HOLLA.. haha
BUT, what usually happens is, instead of searching for a female with
common interests and values, we use women's physical appearance
as measuring tools...
Somethin like 5'6", 125 pounds, 34-24-36,
(D's mother f*ckin D's, Rosie Perez..haha quotin Kanye West.. ;-)
and looks good in or out of any dress.. *evil grin* hehehe
BUT, don't get it twisted, there's alot of females that
base things on money and looks...
Lookin for their Brad Pitt's or Shemar Moore's..
SO, it's just not a fellas trait..!
So at first, looks and physical attraction are very important,
but eventually a person's personality begins to take precedence.
And alot of times, even if a person has a stack attitude,
some people continue dating them just because they look good.
The problem with some good lookin people (not all of them),
is that's their only asset, their looks..!
They've learned to count on their looks to charm people..
And when that fails, they have no personality to fall back on...
On the other hand, average-looking peeps (like myself :-)
must count on their other qualities to charm the person they want..!
so, most average looking people develop great personalities, charm
or game (aka verbal-rap-ability) that is a word...hahaha
Then there's the question..
Does this person really like me, or is it just a game..?
now your sayin... I don't play games.. TRUE..
BUT you do use GAME.. EVERYONE does...!
It's apart of meeting a new person you MIGHT be interested in..
Let me break it down...
When you first meet someone, you hope that other person is attracted to you.
If not, then there's always, well I have a bomb personality..
and if you don't, hahahaha
there's always charm...!
Charm and GAME go hand-in-hand..! You don't think so..???
Ok, let me break that down...
Charm meaning :
a power of pleasing or attracting, as through personality or beauty..
Synonyms - spell or allure..
Allure : to attract or tempt by something flattering or desirable..
Game : the ability to influence or persuade..
hmmmm.. sounds very close to me..!!!!!
So, your trying to get someone interested in you, or to notice you..
So, you give them lil compliments here and there, or flirt with them a lil..
That's GAME aka charm..!
So, Looks, Personality, Game.. Which one is most important?
Everyone has a different answer..
It all depends on what "YOU" are looking for..
Most people will say, personality is..
but yo, let's keep it real..
we live in a shallow world, based on looks, money,
what you got or don't got..etc..etc..etc
People are too f*ckin worried about other people's perception or,
the imagination on how our future partners should look or be like..
My opinion, looks don't tell you about someone's soul or inner thoughts,
Personality does..! Remember, looks fade, but your soul last forever..
You might be good lookin on the outside, but ugly as hell on the inside..
can I get an AMEN.?? hahahha
