scooter11's blog: "Life"

2 People Current mood: touched Category: Romance and Relationships Think about that for a minute.......Now say you meet someone you are attracted to. What was the first thing that attracted you to him or her? Was it the way they dressed, the company they keep, the car they drive or maybe they have a great job and big fancy house. There are several reasons we are attracted to someone, these are but a few. The above mentioned are all superficial. Being , they don't matter. The fact they dress well, nice car etc. is irrelivent in all cases. The fact is, we have to be open to accept this person for who they are, their morals, convictions etc. Not who we precieve them to be. Fore, to precieve is to pre-judge.........we all do it, it's human nature, unfortunatlly. Something brought 2 people together for whatever reason. The key here is to get behond the inital attraction. If you are really attracted to this person, you will be patient, understanding with them. Don't expect to much, after all you just met. Give eachother plenty of time to get to know one another. Small talk IS what it's cracked up to be. Small talk about anything, your likes, dislikes, movies, hobbies, anything except......how much you've got or how much money you make, or "How about that new BMW, isn't it great..........WHO CARES!!!!!!!!. I've got an old ford that will do the same thing. The point i'm trying to make is.....TAKE THE TIME TO KNOW EACHOTHER, not the things they have. I know what your saying to yourself, in this day and age I just don't have the time, with working 10-12 hours a day, gotta run home and let the dog out, have to stop by the cleaners before they close.......SO WHAT You know deep down inside yourself, you will have a million reasons why you don't have the time. Well i'm here to tell you "MAKE THE TIME" , it will change your life forever. 2 people starting out as 1 (how beautiful), at any age, the world is perfect. The flowers smell like you don't remember. The sun is just a bit warmer. The air is alittle fresher, you have a bounce in your step........why, because you are about to embark on a journey with this person and it's exciting and new, the adventure, the mystery, there is no end.......................................................................But is there?????? The question is, "did you really take the time to know eachother?? It's easy to get caught up in all that is new and improved, starry eyed excitement. You must know, that will only carry the 2 of you so far, and not far at that. If you didn't take the time, you are destine to fail, plain and simple. Why you ask, you have the answers, you have had them all along. Now, did you ask yourself the questions to those answers? If not, then you have let yourself down. You never gave the relationship a chance to blossom from the tiny seed you both planted on that very special day you met. What a pity. 2 people striving for something so very hard, with such passion, yet not taking the time to let the flower grow. Why do you think there are only a very small percentage of relationships that last, because people are so rapped up in thier work and trying to live or should I say survive, that they miss out on the real life they could have, or had. That old saying "STOP AND SMELL THE ROSES", never loomed so large as it dose in a relationship.......... Do yourself a favor, for life........................."TAKE THE TIME"

"LOVE", What ever happened to it? Current mood: hopeful Category: Life You know, some of you are not old enough to remember the simpler time in life. I was recently reminded by a post from a friend. The post was about, "Do you remember". It got me to thinking about what was really important. There were things like, lying on your back with a friend and looking at the clouds and saying, "what does that one look like", or, cartoons that weren't 30 minutes of advertisement for an action figure.....What ever happened to those days? I can only guess. First came the commute to work, gotta go where jobs are but don't want to give up that home in the suburb's. Ever notice, you don't spend alotta time in that suburban home anymore??? Then came the computer, well hell we all know what the fuck happened after that....WE"RE HERE!! We're so busy doing shit and fighting traffic that we gotta schedule a meeting with our family just to remember what they look like. Along with what i mentioned are numerous things i didn't mention, The one thing I will always mention is "LOVE" :LOVE". We all say it's the number 1 thing on our list, but is it really??? Take a look at the last two weeks...What do you see?? Running to the store, countless times, pick up the cleaning, take the kids to soccer practice, had to work late...etc. You get the pic. In that 2 week period, can you say how many times you and your partner spent QUALITY time together? Not just, oh, your home, dinner is almost ready, or what's on tv, time....I mean real quality time, you remember. "How was your day...and really meant it, or really listen to what they had to say... really listened...... Cuddled on the couch and played silly ass games like you used to. Holding hands and kisses on the forehead. The little smile with a glance, that meant, "Hey, I'm really glad I'm here with you, don't ever leave...The shit LOVE is made of!!!!!! Sure, our intentions are good but seems we just don't have the time when the day is though....Well I got news for you, You better damn well make the time for LOVE!!!! The rest of the stuff that you can think of is bullshit compared to love. We all need to go back to a simpler time, when LOVE was king and nothing came close to it. We used to take the time for one another, why, because LOVE was there...I'm not sayin love isn't there, it's just taken for granted, over looked, misplaced, it's just out of order because of our fast paced life. People don't hold love as an honor anymore. It's not a right you get when you become an adult. You don't take a test and get certified.....you earn LOVE from someone. If your an asshole or a bitch, that superficial love you have ain't worth shit, better get it together or your fucked.....All I'm saying is slow down alittle, you don't have to put your life on hold for LOVE, just make a gap in it to let LOVE in. God, do we need LOVE??? I bet my life on it!!!! Do You?????? Thanks for your time.........Mike P.S. If you don't think I believe what I write, e-mail me and i'll set you stright.

Feel their Pain....... Have we ever looked at a woman?, really looked? Have we ever thought of a woman? Take, Look at a woman....What do you see, besides the obvious. Wanna know what I see? Too bad, I'm gonna tell you anyway. I see, as you, all the physical things, like icing on the cake, right boys...now look beyond that, if your smart enough to. I see a human being that is STRONG. Not in the sense of lifting things maybe, but strong willed, dedicated to her beliefs, whatever they may be. POWERFUL. A woman with conviction can accomplish any fucking thing she wants to. Men on the other hand, lose interest to quickly, myself included. if I can't have or do it now, then the hell with it. With conviction, a woman will exhaust every avenue to achieve her goal. SMART, hah, I wouldn't get into a pissin fight with them. Hands down, they win. All in all guys, were screwed....unless you admit it, which most men would never do, "I'm a man, I'm tough and smart"....yah right, gimmi a fuckin break. As for me, well, lets just say, there's at least one woman reading this that knows where I stand....xoxo...to her, she's the best. Thought about a Woman. Again, not just thought, "oh, I haven't seen what's her name in awhile, i gotta look her up". Really thought about what she contributes. She's so versatile. She makes sure your ass is doin fine, doesnt she? She dose your laundry, she makes sure you got that belly (from food and beer), makes sure the house is in good order so you and your friends can watch the game, oh, don't worry, she'll pick up the mess. She makes sure you have clean shirts so you don't have to find the cleanest one, in the dirty laundry to wear. IF( that word is so big) that weren't enough....she has a full time job....I thought that was a full time job, lookin after your ass....WTF is wrong with this picture???.....All in all, she makes sure your fat and happy. For those who read my serious stuff, your probably wondering, where's that love shit he always talks about....well, you know it's coming. Next: Have you ever felt their PAIN......Guys, you may have a tough job but really....who has the tougher job....right again, your learning....the woman. Yeah, I know you say thanks and oh, I was going to pick that up, but it's just not enough. I've said this many times, and will again, because I believe it. When was the last time you looked into her eyes, told her just how fucking lucky you were, that she is there, be honest..........that's what I thought. When's the last time you said, "honey, stay in bed, I'll fix you breakfast, then clean the house...here's the paper? When's the last time you showed your LOVE for them, I don't mean a little pickle tickle. I mean real love from your heart and soul? Some of you have, my compliments, you learned something, there's hope for you yet. The last time you called the guys and canceled watching the game, I want to spend the day, just you and me, do whatever you like.....if that's a pickle tickle, then hit it...but it's got to be what she WANTS. The last time you listened to her problems, concerns, her wants? All this may sound small but I've learned, it's huge for a woman....no I'm not gay..lmao. Remember, women love and remember the little things we do, like holding hands, opening the door, telling them they are beautiful, even when they know they just got out of bed...to name just a very few. But you have to mean it!!!!! you just can't say the words, anyone can talk, you have to feel. Guys have a hard time with feelings, expressing themselves, I know I do. All a woman want is to be loved and appriciated, not very much at all, really. Believe me, they don't need men, but men need women. Wise up, be smart, learn................Fell their Pain