I am well pleased with my desicion and the desicion of my wife i am a free man now and i love it a lot i wouldn't trade it for anything in the world i'm finally happy and i can go on with my life no more lies no more deceit no more CHEATING i am happy just remember to look at what you've got and look at it good then figure out if what you have is a good thing then decide what you should do with your life i know what i need to do and with the good lord willing it will happen