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This was up on the bulletin board at a place I go for classes and meetings and support groups and I thought I would share it here with all of you. It's about learning when to let go.
> To "LET GO" does not mean to stop caring. It means I can't do it for someone else.
> To "LET GO" is not to cut myself off. It's the realization that I can't control another.
> To "LET GO" is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.
> To "LET GO" is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.
> To "LET GO" is not to try to change or blame another. It's to make the most of myself.
> To "LET GO" is not to care for...but to care about.
> To "LET GO" is not to fix, but to be supportive.
> To "LET GO" is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.
> To "LET GO" is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.
> To "LET GO" is not to be protective. It's to permit another to face their reality.
> To "LET GO" is not to deny, but to accept.
> To "LET GO" is not to nag, scold or argue, but instead...to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
> To "LET GO" is not to adjust everything to my desires but to take each day as it comes, and cherish myself in it.
> To "LET GO" is not to regret the past, but to grow and live in the present.
> To "LET GO" is to fear less and love more.
