3939925's blog: "is this a social network?"

I have been a member of fubar for over two years now and have met a lot of nice woman

who have become my good friends who I chat with frequently.

And along the way I run into a Cougar  occasionally.

Cougars are older woman who are attracted to younger men.

Many older woman who are attractive can still attract a younger man

and many younger men are attracted to older attractive woman.

Cougars today are like men use to be years ago when you would commonly see

an older man with a much younger woman. But Guys the ladies have turned the tables on us.

Older woman today are much more attractive and youthful looking than before.

Many mother's on this site and in real life look like their daughter's sister.

The acronym "MILF" has become popular with older attractive woman in recent years.

Many Cougars who were recently divorced or in a long relationship  experienced  their Man's

appearance slowly diminish.. Many men during a long marriage or  relationship gain weight  have a beer belly

have a receeding hairline or no hair at all and worst of all  lose their stamina or sex drive.

Cougars who were divorced or in a long relationship don't want to be with a  man similiar to the one they just left.

they would rather be with a younger guy with 6 pack abs who can rock their World on a consistent basis.

Cougars  are less concerned about a man's intelligence or kindness.

Those qualities are not as important to Cougars as  compared to other woman.

Cougars are just prowling for physical attraction that a younger man can provide them.

This is not to say that all older attractive woman are Cougars many attractive older woman still feel comfortable

with a man their own age who they have a lot in common with and and are compatible.

But I have noticed there is a growing number of Cougars on the prowl for younger meat.

The Cougars of the 21st century are thinking like men did in the past.

Many men were attracted to younger woman who's bustline had a larger number than their IQ.

Cougars are attracted to dumb jocks who could not pass their SATS in school but do have a small waistline.

I see this on fubar a lot. I have said in previous blogs that fubar reflects and is a small microcosm of the real World.

You don't have to travel as much today as you did  in the past to know what is going on now.

Peoples attitudes, likes and dislikes are all at your fingertips.

So I suggest to all of my older guy friends who do not look 25 years old anymore to shape up and become a "Bad boy"

This will help make you  popular......

I first joined fubar in May of 2010 and I thought it was mostly a social site where people meet and chat and for somewhat it is.

But for the majority of it's members it is a highly competetive game to get to the highest level.

It is a reflection and microcosm of the real World where some people are obsessed with material things like bling, credits and

popularity and the rush to get to the top. The Owner of fubar must be an expert on   human behavior.

He knows our tendencies and weaknessses. He seems to know what motivates us in the real World and has translated that energy

and drive tnto this game where many of us like in the real World have no time to enjoy the simple things and get stressed out on

getting to the top and being the most popular with the most toys and money or in this case fubucks.

Some members stay online for endless hours at a time and hardly sleep while making profile comments and polishing other members

bling for points in their quest to get to the top of the mountain. Some members spend their hard earned money on such items like

blast , rockstars and yes the biggest toy of them all the all mighty fu- Pony the ultimate material possesion to get them to the

promise land and increase their popularity and vanity. Some members will offer nude pics of themselves in exchange for a  bling pack

to help them get to the next level. Being competetive and wanting to be popular as you make your way to the top is not a bad thing.

But in the real World there is a reward for your time and effort and you can enjoy the fruits of your labor.

Unfortunately I do not see the reward or pay off once you get to the highest level of this game except for self gratification

which is part of the human psyche which the inventor of fubar was banking on when he introduced this social site/game 5 years ago.

I have to admit and give the inventor credit for such a brainstorm of a 24 hours a day  7 days a week 365 days a year including

holidays money making idea which capitalizes on human vanity.......

I have been a member of fubar for about one year now and it is a site with a lot of activity.

But the main reason I joined is because I like meeting new people.

I enjoy good conversation with people from different parts of the World.

I have met some nice people here but for the most part it seems everyone is too busy

to talk they are usually multitasking as is a popular phrase that I have been hearing.

I am aware that fubar is a game but the object of the game is for people to interact.

It seems many members are obsessed with the game and miss the point of what the game

is all about. I do believe that good conversation is a lost art and people aren't interested in

communicating like they use to. We have all this modern technology today but I believe

people communicated better before. This a site to kick back and just have some fun  but it seems many

members are caught up in this frantic race to get to the

highest level of a game. Don't we stress ourselves enough in the everyday World just to make ends meet?

I understand it is very difficult to talk to everyone but I think if someone is nice enough to say HELLO

the least you can do is respond...I know I do, just remember even your best friend was a stranger to you at one time.