I AM AN ARMY WIFE
by Debbie Giusti
I am an Army wife - member of that sisterhood of women who have had the courage to watch their men march into battle and the strength to survive until their return. Our sorority knows no rank for we earn our membership with a marriage license, traveling over miles, or over nations to begin a new life with our soldier husbands. Within days we turn a barren, echoing building into a home and though our quarters are inevitably white walled and unpapered we decorate with the treasures of our travels for we shop the markets of the globe. Using hammer and nail, we tack our pictures to the wall and our roots to the floor as firmly as if we had lived there for a lifetime. We hold a family together by the bootstraps and raise the best "brats", instilling into them our motto "Home is Togetherness" whether motel, or guest house, apartment or duplex. As Army Wives we soon realize that the only good in "Good-bye" is the "hello again." For as salesmen for freedom our husbands are often on the road leaving us behind for a week, a month, and assignment. During separation we guard the home front existing till the homecoming. Unlike our civilian counterparts we measure time not by age, but by our tours - married at Knox, baby born at Bliss, a promotion in Missouri. We plant trees and never see them grow tall, work on projects completed long after our departure, and enhance our community for the betterment of those who come after us. We leave a part of ourselves at every stop. Through experience we have learned to pack a suitcase, a car, or hold baggage and live indefinitely from its contents within; and though our fingers are sore from the patches we have sewn and the silver we have shined, our hands are always ready to help those around us. Women of peace we pray for a world in harmony, for the flag that leads our men into battle will also blanket them in death. Yet we are an optimistic group, thinking of the good and forgetting the bad, cherishing yesterday while anticipating tomorrow. Never rich by monetary standards, our hearts are overflowing with a wealth of experiences common only to those united by the special traditions of military life. We pass on this legacy to every Army bride, welcoming her with outstretched arms, with love, and friendship from one sister to another, sharing in the bounty of our unique, fulfilling Army way of life.
