Many have inquired in my time of being on the app of "buy-ins" and "swaps" I don't do either. So for future references if you want in the family I will only do permanant adds, not stupid temp adds either, most carry the attitude "your in one day, your out the next" I have the attitude, "if you agree with permanent add and I see you have removed me I will remove you to" and once I remove you we won't be adding each other again, no 3 strikes. :) I check who has me in their fam and who doesn't atleast once every 2 days if not daily. :)