10. Inner Thighs
The inside of the thighs are highly sensitive to touching, stroking and licking. Just like the back of the knees, inner thighs also have many nerve endings, therefore when you fondle them, you will turn her on like crazy.
Remember not to bite because the area is very sensitive and doing so would only cause her mild pain, which will, in turn, cause you plenty of pain.
9. Behind the Knees
Because of all the nerve endings behind the knees, you'd be surprised at how crazy a woman can become when you gently lick or nibble on the back of her knees.
Be careful not to overdo it -- the area, after all, is very sensitive and you must be careful not to make the sensation annoying by getting too rough or tickling her too much.
Yes, it's true. Lots of women like it when you play around with their behinds. A lot of women like mild spanking and squeezing of the buttocks. But there's more...
Some women like having their butts licked, sucked and penetrated (with fingers, penis or both). For those who shudder at the thought of sticking their tongues out at Uranus , I'm sure that anal penetration, on the other hand, sounds quite inviting, huh?
7. Nape of the Neck
Just breathing on this part of her body will give her goose bumps all over. So just imagine her reaction when you use your tongue or teeth to get her aroused.
Use your hands too; lift her hair up gently as you bring your mouth closer to her neck. Then, as you sink your teeth into it, pull on her hair slightly so as to give that "I want you sooo bad" impression.
This part of a woman's body is also a good place to start giving her that sensual massage you are famous for and no woman can resist.
Many women enjoy having their ears licked, sucked or kissed. Although blowing in her ear is acceptable, it's not what women enjoy most. Besides the aforementioned things that they like having done to their ears, women like it when you whisper in their ears.
Don't whisper things like, "Can you wash my gym shorts tonight?" Try to be somewhat erotic and give her the shivers up and down her spine instead.
Many women enjoy having their feet touched, massaged and some even enjoy having them licked and sucked. Assuming that their feet have been properly cleansed, women enjoy it when their men spend time caressing their soles, toes and ankles. Because these zones can all be ticklish, the sensation of ticklishness can be pleasant for the recipient.
While some men cringe at the thought of wrapping their mouths around a body part that spends most of its day sweating in leather, many guys are actually pretty keen on the idea of giving their women a good toe lashing every now and then.
This may come as a shock to most guys (women have wrists??!?), but women love having their wrists nuzzled and nibbled by their lovers. The next time you're getting into the foreplay of things with your woman, begin kissing and caressing her wrists and just check out how impressed and turned on she'll become!
3. Breasts (Nipples)
As I'm sure is no surprise to anyone, the breasts are very sexually sensitive and gentle fondling, squeezing, caressing, licking and sucking of the nipples can be extremely arousing.
Just as well, many women like it when their guys get a little rough with their little mountains , so find out how she likes it and give it to her the way she wants!
The clitoris can be stimulated by using the tongue, the finger or, for the multi-talented Joe, both simultaneously. Some women like to guide their lovers as to the specific amount of pressure they enjoy.
For those who don't get that luxury, it's usually quite evident whether or not she's pleased with your performance. If she begins getting squirmy, make sure that it's because she's enjoying it and not because you're giving her that "annoying" feeling.
In the vagina, the G-spot may be a little difficult to locate, but some women find the search quite worthwhile. There is an area inside some women's vaginas that produces intense sexual feelings when stimulated. Once located, very gentle stimulation gives an incredibly pleasant and unusual sensation.
And the number one female erogenous zone...
Yes, it's true. If you know how to manipulate her lips just right through kissing, licking, sucking and biting, it is very possible that a kiss will lead to a lot more than that. Use your lips, your tongue and your teeth to play with her top and bottom lip and kiss her with absolute passion.
And there it is, the top 10 spots that will drive her crazy. Remember that all women are different and have their own likes and dislikes. Get to know her body and experiment. There's so much more to women than just their sexual organs.
Devoting yourself to any practice has to have payoffs. There are many dividends from investing time and energy into tantric sex. Tantric sex practices can help you achieve the following:
1. Expand your possibilities for love. Tantric sex shows you how to deepen the
physical and spiritual connection with your partner, and nurture and love
2. Rejuvenate your health. Practicing tantric sex has physiological and psychological
effects that maintain—and regain—health. For example, breathing techniques
bring more air into the body, nourishing the tissues and muscles. Research
has shown a link between the effects of relaxation, meditation, and spirituality
and better physical and emotional health. People who are spiritual have lower
blood pressure, lower levels of anxiety and depression, more stable hormone levels,
and better functioning immune systems.
3. Tap into the fountain of youth. For all the health benefits mentioned previously,
practicing tantra can make you feel and look young again.
4. Empower women. Many women suffer from low self-esteem. They might have
a poor body image or they might give in to sex when they would really like to
say no or not tell their partner what they really want. In tantric sex, women are
treated with the respect and honor they desire and deserve.
5. Empower men. So many men worry about their penis size, and how long they
last in sex. Many also don’t know how to commit or really please a woman.
When men feel more empowered in sex, they become more confident and open
to being more caring in their relationship.
6. Help you achieve true satisfaction from sex. When the sex act is over, are you
ever left with the feeling that you’re not really finished? This is often because
the sexual act does not go beyond the genitals—it does not touch the heart. In
tantric sex, you can reach the state in which every cell in your body feels nurtured
from the soul connection you feel with your partner. When sex happens
with this kind of heart connection, both body and mind are fed.
7. Alleviate anxieties and depression. Statistics show millions of men and women
suffer from anxiety and depression, including symptoms like fatigue, listlessness,
and sleeping and eating disturbances. Tantric sex provides an enormous source
of energy to the body and peacefulness to the mind that overcomes these
8. Elevate sex. When you elevate sex to a level of sacredness, it takes on a richer
dimension than a mere physical act.
9. Prolong pleasure. Tantric sex techniques make lovemaking—including the afterglow—
last a long time. This occurs not only through ejaculatory control but
by learning to direct sexual energy anywhere in the body or into spiritual manifestations.
10. Heal past emotional wounds. Tantric sex can help you heal past hurts from all
kinds of painful or traumatic experiences in which you felt betrayed or abused. Instead, it helps you create experiences of being honored and respected in sex
and in life in general.
11. Deepen your connection to others. Tantric sex gives more meaning to life and
enriches your relationships.
12. Affect the world positively. Your personal gains cause you to generate more
positive and loving energy outwardly, extending to everyone you come into
contact with, even altering the energy of the planet (since all things on a metaphysical
or spiritual level are interrelated).