Ragdoll's blog: "good stuff"

  Jul 18, 2009 5:39 PM         DIVORCE IS JUST DEATH WARMED OVER

 And it sucks.

 Its torture for those going thru it. Its like acid eating away at your mind 24 fucking hours a day.

 Well maybe not for the ones that file it....Its more like a paid get out of jail free card with the hopes that the next Mr/Mrs Right wont have as much or worse baggage than the person youre leaving behind.

 Illusions Illusions Illusions........ Delusions.

 My heart breaks. Literally.

Two people who come together arent just the two by themselves...its a whole family.

 Like pond ripples...they range out and encompass everything in them. Everyday i realize just how much others have affected me. Because of those personal decisions, I have son in laws and daughter in laws. Extend that out and I have become a grandma many times over. I dont get many chances in the course of a month to be Grandma. But every time I do I want to be the best one I can.

 I find so much love and happiness in the faces of children. So many of lifes stresses can just melt away with the sounds of children laughing and smiling.

 Children sometimes can teach us to better adults.

Sometimes children are the reasons why we become better adults.

 I dont want our families ripped apart. I cant stop it

I wish life came with a rewind button

 I wish my kids would consider all the alternatives and use them before using Divorce as the only solution.

 When its all said and done, Divorce is like Abortion, Its the kids that are killed in the end. That baggage and dissapointment they will carry with them forever.

 Learn to live laugh love and Forgive.

~Ragdoll~