Okay, Why is it people fall in "Love" every month with someone new. Everyone complains about how finding the perfect man/woman is so hard. Why should anyone care if their a great person or not, as long as for a few months they can be someones perfect somebody and then do it again with somebody else?!
Everyone has belittled love so much It's surprising anyone believes in it anymore. You love your dog, you love your cat, you love your family, YOU SHOULD NOT LOVE WHO YOUR WITH IN THE SAME WAY! Their not your pet, you don't clean up their crap, and I hope to god you don't do the same things with your family you do with them... cuz that my friend is incest.
Do you really expect me to empathize with you when your flavor of the week brakes up with you when every week its the same "they were the one, I'll always love them" do the world a favor and stop lying when the next one comes a long they will be the one. I understand everyone seems to hunger for the feeling of being loved , i do i really do. But do the world a favor and buy a box of chocolate, it gives you the same feeling of being in love(scientific fact) without the drama.
Another problem with "love" is Sex. STOP LINKING THE TWO. Sex does not mean love and if you think it does that's why your getting hurt. If you have to love someone to have sex then wonderful but that's you don't expect the other person to feel the same, For them it may just be catching a nut. I think girls are so worried about being thought of as sluts now that they think saying they loved the person puts a band aid over the boo boo. Honey think of the time we live in I don't think there is a big threat of being a slut now. Sex is assumed now....almost as much as love is assumed.
You want romeo and Juliet, Tristan and Isolde, Shakespeare and Viola, Kate and Leopold? Then stop acting like every love you have is a great romance! When you love everyone it belittles love and turns it into nothing more then a word. I'm sorry but the only guys i have had respect for are the people who wait to say i love you...If you need to say or hear it within the first week ..get therapy because honey you have dependency issues. Romeo and Juliet died for each other, Tristan and Isolde saved a nation. Shakespeare and Viola went against their standing, Kate and Leopold went against time...What has the star of your great romance done....said you were cute? You are being patheitc.
People in this current day are taking their obsession with love to a whole new level. Now instead of just them so IN LOVE being enough , They have to Have a baby and get married...Yeah i get that that's the whole point BUT NOT WHEN YOUR 16! If you want to be stupid and make up fake emotions then go ahead but don't bring a baby into it because you feel like somethings missing. GUESS WHAT that thing missing is LOVE. A baby isn't going to just go away in a month when you find something new you want.
When we are born we are born with true love and adoration. As babies we love our parents more then anything. It's only as we grow older that we twist and warp the idea of love. Here's a hint you have to love your self, ALL OF YOU, before you can truly love another. If any of your big problems start with the words "he/she said i..." Then your not ready for love , your still nothing more then a child.
If you like someone and want to jump their bones , it's called LUST honey not LOVE. Just for the record I'm gonna do you a favor and give you links to the definition of both
Love
Lust
Now see Lust is all about the physical, Love is deeper. Don't lie to make yourself feel better. GUESS WHAT YOUR HORNY NOT IN LOVE!
I'm a True romantic that's why i have a problem with this. I believe there is only one " THE ONE" and with that one you don't have to settle and you complete each other. After them you can never feel the same type of love for another. You would do anything to be with that person. It would be you and them not anyone else , because nobody else would matter! It wouldn't last a month it would last a lifetime. Maybe I'm weird and stuck in a different time period but I'm not looking for a new love every month. One is more then enough for me. I don't feel the need to live my life satisfying a fake love with who i am. If i care about you i'll tell you , but if i don't love you don't expect me to say i do.
You can't make someone love you the way you think you love them. That's the only real part of love left. You can't make it happen, you can pretend but that don't make it real. So stalkers give it up, if someone says its over its over move on obsess over someone else.
Next time your about to tell all your friends how in love you are AGAIN stop and think on if you really are. Because remember if by some miracle your needy ass ever does find someone your really in love with , it wont mean as much. Okay I've gone on enough I'm out, done, taking a break(I'll prolly rant about this again though :-P)
I know people who are false love practicers will comment this going" this is so true"..YOU'RE WHO IM WRITING ABOUT so okay die now buh bye
<3
Bixi
