I have come to the conclusion, that you are either liked for who you are or your not. You are accepted for everything you have flaws and passions.
But for some that is not enough. You have to adapt to their lives. You have to be what they expect you to be. Not be who you are and that is not fair.
So to quote a great play RENT:
"Take me for what I am, who i was meant to be! & if you give a damn, take me baby or leave me!"
Thank you to those who accept me for me! Faults, flaws and passions! You are the true friends in life!